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hat Society Anne Marie Fleming's Announced Miss Anne Marie Fleming, liam Joseph Fleming of 1210 became the bride of Joseph J. of Brooklyn on Saturday at James V. Smith officiated the ceremony, which was the followed by reception at Hotel Ambassador, Manhattan. The bride, who was given in marriage by her father, wore an ivory satin gown trimmed full hung from a with Trapunto, beading. Her beaded crown that matched the beading on the gown.

She carried a cascade of white orchids and bouvardia. Mrs. John Reid of Brooklyn, who was matron of honor, also a sister of the bridegroom, was dressed in gold satin, made on Empire lines and carried bronze anemones chrysanthemums. The bridesmaids were Mrs. Joseph Gabriel of Elmhurst and Miss Nancy O'Connor of Woodlawn.

Their gowns were the same as the matron of honor, only in emerald green and they carried yellow anemones chrysanthemums. The bride's brother, William Joseph Fleming Jr. of West Hempstead, was best man and acting as ushers were John F. Dorff and John A. Reid, both of Brooklyn.

After a wedding trip to the Poconos, the couple will make their home in Brooklyn. Mrs. Woods is a graduate of St. Saviour's Academy and the College of Mount St. Vincent, Riverdale, N.

Y. The bridegroom was graduated, from St. Michael's, College and St. John's University School of Law. Marjorie C.

Kearney Fiancee of Mr. Haberle Mr. and Mrs. Vincent A. Kearney of Valley Stream an- nounce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Marjorie Catherine Kearney, to Fred J.

Haberle, son of Mrs. Fred J. Haberle of Richmond Hill, and the late Mr Haberle. Miss Kearney was graduated from the Mary Louis Academy, Jamaica, served as a Red Cross nurses' aide during the war, and is employed as a secretary for Ebasco Services, an engineering concern in Manhattan. Mr.

Haberle was graduated from St. John's Preparatory School and St. John's University, and attended the graduate school of business administration of New York University. He is a member of the Advertising Club of New York and is employed by the H. C.

Bohack Company as assistant advertising manager. During the war he served with the field artillery in Europe. Dr. Ralph I. Mond To Wed Miss Gassman Mr.

and Mrs. Harry Gassman of Lawrence, have announced the engagement of their daughter, Miss Sandra Gassman to Dr. Ralph Ira Mond, son of Mr. and Mrs. Morris Mond of 696 Lefferts Ave.

Miss Gassman was graduated from Lawrence High School and from Cornell University. She is a case worker attached to the Nassau Department of Public Welfare. Dr. Mond attended Dartmouth College and was graduated from New York University College of Medicine this year. He is interning at Lenox daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. WilCarroll St. and East Rockaway, Woods, son of Mrs. John Woods St. Ignatius Church.

The Rev. Hill Hospital, Manhattan. During the war he served in the Navy and now holds a lieutenant's commission in the Re- serve. Elizabeth Remsen Has Church' Wedding Miss Elizabeth Victoria Remsen was married to Randolph Vernon Davis on Saturday at the Queen of All Saints Church. Mrs.

Davis is the daughter of Mrs. Joseph Remsen of 60 Hanson Place and the late Joseph Remsen. The Rev. John Fischperformed the ceremony, which was followed by a reception at the Hotel St. Regis, Manhattan.

The bride was given in marriage by her brother, Emery Remsen. Her only attendant! was her twin sister, Mrs. Charles Joseph Trum. The bride wore a princess style silk-satin gown with a fingertip veil which was attached to a coronet of orange blossoms. She carried a prayer book covered with white orchids.

The matron of honor wore a green silk taffeta gown with carried matching bouquet accessories American and Beauty roses. Thomas Bostwick of Chardon, Ohio, was best man for the bridegroom. The ushers were Fred Wenzel and Charles Joseph Trum, both of Brooklyn. The couple left for Beach, on an extended honeymoon. Upon their return they will reside in Middlefield, Ohio.

The bride attended Hunter College for two years and for three years studied economics at New York University. The bridegroom attended schools in Ohio, his native State. Catherine A. Conway, J. Mr.

Mullin Betrothed Mr. and Mrs. William A. Conway of 440 16th announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Catherine Anne Conway, to Robert Francis Mullin, son of Mrs. Evelyn Mullin 1924 8th Ave.

Miss Conway attended Girls'. Commercial High School and associated with Corroon and Reynolds, Inc. Mr. Mullin served two years and a half the United States Navy and with Messerschmidt Contracting Corp. Catherine A.

Conway Hair Short? Still Needs Brushing By PATRICIA LINDSAY I MEN FAN-PLEATING gives drama to this dress after five with its skirt of crisp stepping- taffeta. Cuffed sleeves, plunging collared neckline and winking jet buttons add dressmaker detail. $9.95, black and navy, sizes 12-20, Namm's Budget Dress Shop. GLEAMING COLORED beading highlights hipline drapery in fashion-favored taupe or peacock rayon crepe, as well as classic black. $9.95, sizes 14 to 20, Namm's Budget Dress Shop.

News for the Homemaker. Finger Warmer, Tableware, Odorless Paint, Decals By ELIZABETH LIPS No use complaining when old Jack Frost starts nipping at your fingertips, as Mark Twain pointed out. But although man can't change the weather yet, there definitely is something to be done for frigid digits. The answer is the new "Pocket Heaterette," by the David T. Aber.crombie a gadget about the size of a package of cigarettes and as thin as a watch.

It's ideal for football fans, hunters, outdoorsmen, sportsmen and others who be in the cold outdoors for any stretch of time. The little "heaterette" generates an even temperature of (125 degrees Fahrenheit for 24) hours on one filling of ordinary lighter. the fluid. temperature of the handwarmer is not sufficient to maintain a flame, but warm enough to provide comfortable, penetrating heat, it is perfectly safe even for children. Old timers, too, have found the pocket gadget a relief for the pain of stiff joints and aching muscles.

The "heaterette" is available at sporting goods stores for $3.50. Made of sturdy nickeled brass, it comes in a double draw. string flannel bag and can he carried in a vest pocket or purse for immediate use. Tableware Attractive square-shaped plastic dishes, resistant to chipping and breaking, are now available at Loser's in dubonet, gray and dark green. The 20-piece starter set, consisting of four pieces each of 10-inch dinner plates, six-inch bread and butter plates, cups and saucers and soup or cereal bowls, sells for $17.95.

Odorless Paint An odorless paint, a boon to hotels, hospitals, theaters, inIstitutions and private, homes, been developed the Keystone Paint and Varnish Company of 71 Otsego The unscented characteristic of this new product is not achieved through the use of deodorant or perfume to mask the fumes, according to the manufacturer, but is ly formulated and processed to get the odorless results. Citing the beneficial results of this new discovery, D. C. Arnold, president of the company, pointed out that homemakers can now do their ininterior painting on a year -round basis and need not confine it to months in which the weather permits the opening of windows to let the fumes escape. Decorative Decals A new border decoration that's durable and washable is OUTDOOR SPORTS FAN will welcome this hand warmer.

actually the homemaker's old decoration standby, decals, in one continuous design of color. Made by Meyercord, creators of "spot" decals, the new homedecoration aids help "tie a room together." The border designs, which come in easy-touse four-foot lengths, make col-1 orful shelf edging and floral panels on cabinets, furniture a walls. You simply cut the border into convenient lengths, dip in water and slide the design into position. There's a new decal remover card that loosens the adhesive SO that the border decorations can be changed as often as the homemaker likes. Fall Dance Friday The annual Fall dance of Alpha Chi Sigma Sorority will be held Friday evening at the Grand Salon of the Hotel St.

George. Music will be furnished by Harry Arnold and his Orchestra. Daughter Born Mr. and Mrs. V.

W. Downs of Flushing announce the birth of a daughter, Elizabeth Mary Downs, on Nov. 16. Mrs. Downs is the former Evelyn McHugh, daughter of Mrs.

John McHugh of 267 E. 32d and the late Mr. McHugh. a a CHIP- RESISTANT tableware, a gift item for the home BROOKLYN EAGLE, NOV. 30, 1949 19 Are 'The Menu Beef Stew with Dumplings Bran Muffins, Butter or Margarine Mixed Raw Vegetable Salad Spicy Dressing Applesauce Cake Applesauce Cake cup shortening cup strained honey 2 cups sifted flour 1 teaspoon soda teaspoons cinnamon teaspoon cloves 1 applesauce 1 cup seedless raisins Cream shortening thoroughly; add honey gradually and beat until light and fluffy.

Add mixed and sifted dry ingredients alternately with applesauce. Fold in raisins. Pour into two prepared 8-inch layer pans and bake in moderate oven (350 degrees F) 30 minutes. Frost as desired. (Lemon frosting is a favorite).

Nutrition Note Although choice cuts of top grade beef are scarce and expensive, less demanded cuts of lean beef from range-fed cattle is in good supply and equally nutritious. Most cuts are best prepared by braising and stewing methods. Joanne S. Kaspar Fiancee of Mr. Alstadter Mr.

and Mrs. Joseph Kaspar of Woodmere announce the be. trothal of their daughter, Miss Joanne Sidney Kaspar, to Stuart Alstadter, son of Mr. and Mrs. Sidney Alstadter of Kew Gardens.

Miss Kaspar was graduated from Lawrence High School and attending Edgewood Park Junior College, Briarcliff Manor. Mr. was graduated from New York University. -Living in BrooklynKings to Look At Cats Today By MARGARET MARA Some people like cats. Some people confess they don't like cats.

Those who like cats no doubt will attend the cat show at the Hotel Granada which continues today and tonight. Curiosity, not a particular liking for cats, prompted me to attend yesterday's show. And guess what happened? I found myself wanting to own a Siamese cat! I didn't go for the long haired type commonly known as Persian or Angora. Too pampered looking. They reminded me of the voluptuous, bejeweled and draped beauties of the harem (the story-book version).

Now, the, Siamese is something! It has a small head, not jowled like the Persian. The Siamese is quick and graceful, not languorous as is the long haired cat. It has a smoky nose area and the coat is short and smooth. The ones es I saw were all white and all buff. I give myself just about two days of wanting to own a cat.

Then I'll go back to wanting to own a dog. Cats aren't chummy enougn, in Margaret Mara my opinion. The cages of some of the cats in the show are plastered with ribbons they have won in other cat shows. One cage has so many ribbons that you can hardly see the occupant. You seldom can swerve a fancier from his devotion to legalites) turned up the interfelines, therefore I was a bit esting fact that one of the chief surprised to learn that the pro- financial backers of the musical ceeds of the cat show, being production of "Lost in the held in Kings County, will go Stars" at the Music Box Theater to the Seeing Eye Dog Founda- is a Heights woman, Lucy tion in Morristown, N.

J. Mitchell. Actress Peggy Wood, former Local 'Angel' Brooklynite, also is a partner of Perusal of a recent issue of the producers, Maxwell Anderthe Law Journal (newspaper of son and Kurt Weill. I hope that you do not forget to brush your hair regularly even if you have had a boyish cut. Hair and scalp need stimulating to keep healthy so you cannot get by with just combling your hair every lose day! It is said that men their hair more quickly because they wash it too often (under! showers when they bathe) and because they do not brush it.

They use a brush to slick hair down, not to brush it up and away from the scalp as do women. Don't make the mistake either of washing your hair too often. Every week or every 10 days more frequently. If douse it more hair will soon lack any lustre and will be rebellious. Encourage Curl is Every head' of hair has a natural line of its own-that is -it falls one way or the other.

Discover how your hair to fall naturally and then have it trimmed so it can fall that way. This will encourage any wave or curl it might have, especially if you keep brushing lit scalp and oil over distribute the the length of natural the hair. If your hair is short, after a shampoo push it up against your head with your hands while it is still damp. Do not comb it or brush Let it dry thoroughly as it will fall and you will be surprised to see that it has a little natural fluff and curl. Any girl makes a mistake to set her hair with setting lotion unless is too frizzy.

Hair 1o- tion only tends to make the hair dull because it coats it. The less you put on your hair the better. Once in a blue moon you discover a hairdresser who actually knows how to cut hair to encourage its natural wave or curl. When you find him, never let him go! He will keep your hair shaped as it should be shaped. Skytop Activities Contemporary Comment Entertain Boroites By RUTH G.

DAVIS Society Editor Sharpen those ice skates and wax those skis for we saw the Poconos usher in Winter over the weekend. Even though the official Winter date is Dec. 21 and the snow fall in this region was light on Sunday it was the real McCoy at Skytop, where many Brooklynites love to spend a holiday. The weekend activities including the wonderful Thanksgiving dinner featured a variety of outdoor and indoor sports; a charcoal broil and fish fry (a picnic by the lake), movies, a turkey shoot with the winner getting a big turkey as an award, television for those who couldn't miss the Army-Navy game, along with roasting chestnuts and popping corn. The barn dance on Saturday evening was the piece de resistance.

As far as we were concerned we've never seen a better barn dance with such superb decorations adorning one of the dining rooms. There were bales of hay as a background for the orchestra, a hay loft under which the guests danced and loads of real farm equipment even to a pen for the pigs, chickens, ducks, etc. The guests were dressed In ginghams and blue jeans and some even had real hick masks. Those who weren't prepared for a barn dance were given gay neckerchiefs Sour Cream May Be Used For Rolls, Cakes, Cookies By ELSA STEINBERGER Food Editor From time to time women on hand that they want to your holiday needs for cream using this, other than as a cream and soda make wonderfully light rolls, biscuits and cakes. Here is a delicious gingerbread that we like to serve hot, as it comes from the oven, with applesauce, Ice cream or whipped cream topping.

To make the sour cream gingerbread, cream 4 tablespoons shortening. Add 1 cup sugar gradually, creaming gether thoroughly. 1 cup molasses, and 2 well beaten eggs. Sift together cups sifted flour, teaspoons soda, 2 teaspoons ground ginger, 1 teaspoon to first mixteaspoon ground, cinnamon, 1 ture alternately with 1 cup sour cream. Mix well.

Pour into prepared 10-inch pan. Bake in moderate oven (330 degrees 40 to 45 minutes. Cookies, Too Sour cream cookies may be served as a snack, or with ice cream, fruit or pudding. Keep some in your cookie jar or make enough to use for gift packages or to hang on the Christmas tree. Cream cup butter or margarine.

Gradually add 1 cup beat 1 egg well, then mix with brown sugar and cream well. mixture. Sift togeth- find themselves with sour cream use. Perhaps you overestimated and would like some ideas for sauce for fish or meats. Sour er 2 cups sifted flour, 2 teaspoons baking powder, spoon salt, teaspoon ground nutmeg, teaspoon soda.

Add these alternately with cup sour cream. Add 1 cup nut meats, chopped. Drop by teaspoonsfuls, 3 inches apart, on oiled baking sheet. Bake in a hot oven (400 degrees 10 minutes. Yield: about 50 cookies.

Filling for a baked pie shell may be made this way: Measure cups sour cream. Scald cup of it in the top of a double boiler. Mix together the slightly beaten yolks of 2 eggs, teaspoon ground cinnamon, teaspoon ground cloves, teaspoon ground nutmeg, 5 tablespoons flour, 1 oup sugar and remaining sour cream. Add the hot cream slowly to this mixture and return to double boiler. Cook 25 minutes, stirring occasionally.

Add cup chopped raisins and 1 teaspoon vanilla. When partly cooled, pour into pastry shell (8-inch). Top vith meringue made by beating the whites of the two eggs until stiff, but not dry, then beating in 4 tablespoons sugar: Bake in a low temperature oven (325 degrees 15 minutes. Mary Haworth's Mail Implied Divorcee Stigma Resents and straw hats of various sorts. The "city" farmers really took over.

The party ended the Pine Room with the guests participating in square dancing. OF COURSE, we spotted Brooklynites. Spending a week and returning home yesterday were Representative and Mrs. James J. Heffernan of 65 Prospect Park West, Commissioner William J.

Heffernan of 554 60th St. and Mr. and Mrs. Adrian Paul Driggs of 65 Prospect Park West and their small daughter, Patsy Driggs. Also enjoying the festivities were Mr.

and Mrs. W. C. Valentine of 36 Plaza Miss Marjorie Wicht of 805 Lincoln Place, Miss Irma J. Cooper of 751 St.

Mark's Miss Gertrude R. Killoran and Mrs. Eva Colombin, both of 1711 Avenue and Mr. and Mrs. George H.

Saylor of 1616 Beverly Road. And as usual there were many former Brooklynites on the scene, tunately we missed some of the names, but de did 'have a chat with Mr. and Mrs. Thomas A. Rave, now of Manhattan, but formerly of the Heights and Long Beach.

We even discovered that the general manager, William, W. Malleson, and the resident manager, Albert D. Abrecht, was formerly from Brooklyn, DEAR MARY HAWORTH-My attention a divorcee is the main source of your wretchedwas captured by the headlines on a front-page ness in relation to society. But if we could see news story about the forthcoming marriage of your life history in clear perspective, I think we a young society woman to a British peer. might find that your broken marriage was just As I read a little further I another blow in a series of hard knocks that came across these words, had been battering your self-esteem from the "'The slender, dark-haired time you were knee high to a duck.

American divorcee-," and The foregoing assumption--namely (1) that again I experienced a feeling it is an old story with you to feel "outside the of rebellion, as I have SO pale" and (2) that the indignity of divorce seems often before. Even in the the last straw -is based on the melancholy inannouncement of wedding tensity of your rebellious feeling that "there is plans, there is no escape no escape from the word divorce." from the word "divorce." Symptom of Self-Censure I am almost 30 and have been divorced for In psychiatric parlance you are "projecting" seven the latest quirk in your lifelong habit of selfyears. I had a conservative reproach, in imagining nowadays that any one upbringing and I did my who gets to know you must, sooner or later, best to make a good marshare your innermost conviction that you are riage, but when my husband Mary Haworth "no good" and that your being a divorcee is could not be faithful to me, absolute proof of it. I felt obliged to terminate our relationship. Your essential problem is an anxiety neuro- In Hopeless Mood I have been reared in the church Mary Haworth choose to associate with people who go to church, but even in church circles I experience a feeling of panic when I am introduced to a stranger, because I know that sooner or later it will come out that I have been divorced.

I have made a reasonable adjustment to the situation in the work I am doing, but I face a future with no home or children, which is all I ever wanted. And almost as bad is the constant reminder that I am a divorcee. No one ever lets you forget it. How can one get rid of this feeling? E. Esteem Taken Beating DEAR E.

may, seems to you that being' and I sis, and to say, as you do, that nobody lets you forget your divorcee status, that you are being constantly reminded of it, that there is no escape from the word disparagingly used, is simply to touch on one concentrated symptom of obsessional self-concern. The bogieman isn't outside yourself, in unkind views that others may hold. Nor is it in the misfortune of being divorced. Such as it is, it has its existence in your unconscious, in a complex of self fears implanted before you reached the age of reason. And to rid yourself of that affliction, you may have to enlist first hand psychological help.

M. H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or personal interview. Trite her in care of the Brooklyn Eagle..