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of of at do ME Are Society Wheeler-Gravenhorst orst Wedding on Saturday Miss Anne Spencer Wheeler, gaard Wheeler of 162 E. 80th plans for her marriage to Paul and Mrs. Paul G. Gravenhorst of ceremony will take place at 4 p.m. on Saturday at St.

Andrew's Church, Hopkinton, N. H. The Rev. Austin Reed will officiate a reception will follow at Sand Bank Farm, Contoocook, N. H.

Mrs. John Howard Snow Weber, Mass, will act as matron of honor for Miss Wheeler and the bridesmaids will be Mrs. Gravenhorst of Brooklyn and Miss Mary Jordan McCampbell of Manhattan. George W. Gravenhorst will be best 1 man and the ushers will include Charles K.

Gravenhorst of Brooklyn and John Howard Snow of Weber, Mass. Clare C. Kenny To Wed Saturday Miss Clare C. Kenny, daughter of Mr. Francis P.

Kenny of 353 63d St. and the late Mrs. Kenny, will become the of Jackson Burden, son of Mr. and Mrs. Jackson S.

Burden of 584 E. 29th at Our Lady of Perpetual Help R. C. Church on Saturday, at 10 a.m. A reception will follow the ceremony at the Chanticleer.

The maid of honor will be Miss Bernadette Kenny, sister of the bride-elect. Misses Agnes Loop and Elizabeth Kenny, cousins of the brideelect, will be bridesmaids. George Murray will serve as best man. The ushers will be Daniel Kenny, brother of the bride-elect, and Ernest Rossi. Janet A.

Salamack Bride of W. C. Murphy Miss Janet Adrienne Salamack, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Bartholomew J.

Salamack of 162 98th became the bride of William Charles Murphy at a nuptial mass at St. Patrick's R. C. Church, Fort Hamilton, on June 26. The bride wore a gown of candlelight satin, featuring a sweetheart neckline, trimmed with Val lace which also outlined the hipline of the long tight bodice which terminated in a long, full train.

Her veil of bridal illusion was attached! to a wreath of pearlized orange blossoms. She carried a bouquet Mrs. W. C. Murphy I daughter of Mrs.

Edith NeerManhattan, has completed the Charles Gravenhorst, son of Mr. 35 Prospect Park West. The of white roses, iris and orange blossoms. The bridesmaids, Mrs. Michael Fennello, Mrs.

Harry Anstey, and Mrs. John Mathews, gowns of off-the shoulder fullskirted leaf green taffeta and matching bonnets of maline. They carried nouquets sot yellow iris and roses. Miss Joan Elizabeth Golden, maid of honor, wore a taffeta gown with off-shoulder and padded hip detail. Her bonnet matched her yellow gown and she carried a bouquet of the same flowers.

The ushers were B. Donald Salamack, Roger Haigney and Edward J. Salamack. The best man was Luke Murphy, brother of the groom. A reception was held at the Towers Hotel following the ceremony.

After a two week honeymoon the couple will reside in Flatbush. of Miss Hazel King to Wed William Gay on Saturday Mr. and Mrs. Leslie King of 373 92d St. announce the forthcoming marriage of their daughter, Miss Hazel King, to William Gay, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Wilbert Gay, of 349 92d on Saturday a 5 p.m. at St. Jacobi Lutheran Church. The Rev.

John F. Bauchmann will officiate. Miss Helen Wubbe will be maid of honor. Miss Eleanor Shehadi and Miss Helen Hakala will serve as bridesmaids. William Murphy will br.

best man and Jack Bergstol and David Marsac will serve as ushers. Laurine E. Collins, Richard Foote Engaged Mr. and Mrs. Wilbur Mausby Collins of Garden City, formerly of Macon, announce the engagement of their daughter.

Miss Laurine Elizabeth Collins, to Richard Lindsay Foote, son of Mrs. Helen Mann Foote, formerly of Garden City. now of Manhattan, and the late Walter Douglass Foote. Miss Collins attended Mount de Sales Academy, Macon, and was graduated from Garden City High School. She will attend Immaculate Junior College in Washington in the Fall.

She is president of the Junior Auxiliary of the Garden City League for Mercy Hospital. Mr. Foote was graduated from Garden City High School and served two years in the Army Air Corps before going to Columbia University, where he is a member of Phi Gamma Delta. Adelaide C. Windels Marriage Announced Miss Adelaide C.

Windels, daughter of Mrs. Werner A. Windels of 1757 W. 8th and James J. McAvoy, son of Mrs.

Ellen McAvoy of 2080 84th were married Saturday at nuptial mass at St. Simon and Jude R. C. Church by the Rev. J.

Kenny. Eileen Goodwin was matron of honor for her sister. George McAvoy, brother of the bridegroom, was best man. George McConaughy and Vito Conmise acted as ushers. By MARA Lifeguards at Coney Island are besieged with questions coming from mothers fearful of al lowing their children to enter polluted waters.

A survey made yesterday, the second of Coney's biggest days this season, showed innumer. tole family groups contenting themselves with the breeze from the ocean, picnic lunch and digging in the sand. "People me if the water is polluted," related a youthful lifeguard. "I tell them, 'yes', the Board of Health said so. Then they ask me if it is dangerous but I tell them to figure that one out for themselves." Although the Board of Health recently named only the wasters at Sea Gate and South Beach, Staten Island, as having a high count of Pollution Threat Frightens Many Mothers at Coney Island; Youngsters Dig in Sand but Told to Keep Out of Water coliform bacteria, tests were reported made Said the mother of two small youngsters; yesterday at Coney Island off Stillwell Ave.

"I let them walk in the water up to their ankles, just enough to keep cool. It would be Well-It Good awful if they got that water in their Doesn't Taste mouths!" The lifeguard in question said that water she exclaimed in horror. at that point "tastes foul." Difficult to Understand Criticism of the city was generous. "I wouldn't go in at high tide," explained A registered nurse from 68th a heavily tanned, middle-aged woman, who Bay Ridge, had four children of a had just waded ashore after a swim. "You neighbor at the beach.

They were from 4 to 11 years of age and their should see the garbage and sewage floating bathing suits had not been wet. on the water then! It surprises me to "I wouldn't think of allowing them in the see how indifferent some people are about it," after what I de- she continued. "Foreigners are shocked, water read in the papers!" clared the nurse. "And I think it a shame that though. In their countries they don't see the city doesn't do something about it; ether water like this." clean up the beaches or close them.

They The number of bathers and swimspend a lot of money on other things like the mers seemed comparatively sparse Golden Jubilee," she pointed out. yesterday but the beach was in the aka Photo by Tartan FUN IN THE SUN with safety is the motto of tHis happy family as the mother prepares her young son for a day on the beach by covering his young shoulders anal arms with a greaseless lotion that will protect tender skin. A healthy tan will follow. Such a precaution is (advisable the first few times on the beach to avoid Inexpensive Papers Take Fabric Colors By BEATRICE JONES the papers were: bine el with Waverly's Spartan Complete harmony of fabrics and wallpapers in home decoration and the combinations of newly introduced colors, were the highlights of a presentation this week by F. Schumacher at its gallery, 60 W.

40th Manhattan. Harmonizing fabrics which picked up the colors of the papers, or tints of same the shade, include print, plain and textured fabrics priced at $1.60 to $6 a yard. Wallpapers, ranging from a $1.95 to $4.85 a roll, this manufacturer's represent expensive series on a par with better grades. Newer colors the wallpapers combined charcoal, accented with brilliant flamingo, azure with chartreuse land mint green set off with lipstick red. Outstanding designs among Neighbors Enjoy Contemporary Comment Surprise Concert By RUTH G.

DAVIS Society Editor Neighbors are nice to have, and particularly famous neighbors. In one of the prettiest settings on Long Island, Dogwood Hollow in Stony Brook, Eleanor Steber of the Metropolitan Opera Company, gave a concert to the delight of her neighbors. It vas what might be called a "perfect setup" for it was a gorgeous setting for a beautiful voice. Miss Steber, who to her neighbors is Mrs. Edward Bilby, selected songs from her repertoire that were most appropriate to the natural auditorium.

On the platform bedecked with garden flowers, Miss Steber looked lovely in a white Summer gown that had a draped underskirt. She was singing for neighbors who were her friends as well. Miss Steber's country home is in nearby Belle Terre. FOLLOWING THE MUSICAL, a supper party was given in honor of the Metropolitan Opera Star by Mr. and Mrs.

James A. Davidson of East Setauket. at the Riverside Inn, Smithtown. It was reminiscent of Diamond Jim's best day, and to give it that added touch there was present Edward Arnold, who has portrayed him on the screen. Among the special guests noted were Alex usual crowded condition on a hot day.

Concessionaires regard the water pollution report as "the usual scare at the beginning of the season." Said one: "This happens every year. Then people forget about it." They Don't Use It Several concession-owners questioned, admitted that they never have time to swim. "I've been here five years and never went in the water." said one. Concessionaires don't like talk about polluted water. It's bad enough for business to have rainy weather like we've been having," said Mrs.

Fanny Cohen, concessionaire. "Now polluted water. Then tomorrow the 10-cent fare!" she exclaimed with exasperation. Okay! Keep That Tax No Handbag for Us By GERTRUDE McALLISTER For the past two weeks we have gone purse-less, carry. ing only a little cosmetic kit.

This is our way of protesting the 20 percent tax on women's handbags--not particularly effective but it satisfies us. Every time we find a nickle (a dime beginning today) for subway fare without having to wade through a great deal of clutter -there being no room in a cosmetic kit for anything but bare essentials- feel we've told Congress off, all right! And, of course. we do get around and occasionally someone, asks, "You're not carrying a handbag-how do you manage?" Well, to tell the truth, it is a trifle inconvenient. There's no room for note paper. There's no room for cigarettes.

There's only room for money, compact, lipstick and comb and that with a tight squeeze. SOMETIME AGO WE from a different angle--a never slapped them with a They are no different from a wouldn't listen to reason, our is now out of session and until go purse-less. Sooner or later, Congress about that tax. This being had better mend their high My vote is in nobody's pocket. ATTACKED this 20 percent tax man's pants pockets.

Congress 20 cents-on-a-dollar penalty! woman's handbag. Congress reason. Of course, Congress it reconvenes, we will try to just has to do something an election year, those boys handed ways with us women. PLEASE NOTE--We hope you won't mind but like everyone else, we, too, find the heat insufferable and it seems like a lot of tommyrot to be talking about Fall styles. Sitting in the salons of high fashion these days doesn't make sense.

Models, who have our deepest sympathy, traipse by, their throats wrapped in mink scarfs. You know, it is almost inhuman. And right now, of course, there isn't a bathing suit or cotton show going on anywhere! It's a silly business and we find it difficult to fall in. Fannie Barbera Becomes Bride Miss Fannie Barbera, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph Barbera, 1181 Greene was married June 20 at. St. Barbara's Church, to Ramsy Martin Cutrone, son of Mr. and Mrs. Martin Cutrone, 445 E.

51st St. The maid of honor was Lucy V. Cutrone. Catherine and Pauline DeNaro acted as flower girls. Chief Petty Officer Anthony Joseph Cutrone of the U.

S. cousin of the bridegroom, was best man. A reception followed the ceremony at the Rivoli. Shirley Pedersen's Wedding Announced Patricia E. Gorevin Feted at Bridal Shower Miss Patricia E.

Gorevin, and "Vineyard Lattice." companion papers of grape pattern over a wooden lattice. Printed on white, blue or vellow grounds, this shown combined with Waverly's chintz in Sahara (a sand). Based a European grill pattern was "Saville" and "Camille" with the latter having camillas in the ironwork. "Seville was displayed on colcharcoal ground with a grav grill, Camille" on a charcoal ground with axel and green flowers leaves. These were teamed with Waverly's plain everglaze chintz in gray and lacquer.

Subdued Coloring "Skane," an all-over Swedish pattern, designed by Professoriof Josef Frank, was shown in brown and white with ly's bonded bombay cloth in reseda, green and also with an everglazed chintz in bright red. Waverly's "Impromptu Stripe," a woven damask in crimson made a vivid combination with "Montego" a banana patterned wallpaper with white ground and green design. wallpaper is also available in light green, brown and yellow grounds suggested to be com-1 cloth: in dark green. Delicate Print "Cameo," a true Wedgwood color print. employed cameo fig on blue, turquoise, rose, velly sage or charcoal grout 10 This was displayed thie charcoal ground with small red and white figures combine with Waverly's white and mag enta everglazed chintz.

In all there were 23 different prints af wallpaper and 24 decorative: fabrics all of which be obtained through Loeser's decorating services. Miss Edig4, Slotpole, W. J. Lev ne Wed Mr. and Mr.

Harry Slotpole 154 New, port St. announce the! marriage of their daughter, Miss Edith Slotp ole, to William J. Levine, son of Mrs. Celia Le. vine of 1114 Foster Ave.

wedding an de reception took place at tIme Gold Manor on June 20. The bride vore a satin gown and carried a prayer book with gardenias and, sweet peas. The bridegroom sex ved in the army. A graduate of City College of New York, he completing his studies at New ork University. is SKANE That is the name of this new wallpas ver machine-print, one of a series created by Profess br Josef Frank, Swedish artist, for F.

Shumacher Con n- pan y. It retails at $2.25 a roll and will be available at Loeser's. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Charles J.

Gorevin, was honbred at a bridal shower given by Mrs. Joseph J. Coates on June 24. The wedding of the prospective bride will take place July 31 at Queen of All Saints Church. Among those who attended were Mrs.

Charles J. Gorevin, mother of the bride- elect, and Mrs. Joseph Riley, mother of the prospective bridegroom. The marriage of Miss Shirley Ebba Pedersen, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Otto Pedersen of 28 Marine to William Keller, son of Mrs. Geraldine Keller of 9324 3d took place June 20 afternoon in the Bay Ridge Methodist Church with the Rev. Frederick Potten officiating. Miss Marjorie Andersen was maid of honor; acting as the best man was the bridegroom's cousin, Paul Lorenzo. Ushers were Ralph Pettersen and John Little.

"GOING PLACES?" PHONE MA. 4-6200 FOR IDEAS Mother-in-Law Gives Haworth's Mail Wife Some Trouble DEAR MARY HAWOR -My husband's mother, Mrs. is a very energetic, capable woman. She has always been very kind, to me and I have tried to treat her as I do my Thelown mother, but, to be perfectly honest, I inwardly rebel against her. I find her dynamic personality very wearing to be with for any length of time, and for that reason her frequent, insistent invitations are becoming a great problem to me.

She invites us months in advance to visit her home on certain dates, which, of course, leaves us no "out." and though we spend more time with her than we do with my family, I know from her continual comments Mary Haworth that she feels neglected. Wife Feels Small Abount Resentment If we spend a day or two at my home, we soon receive a letter from her which mentions that my folks still have a son at home, whereas she and her husband are all alone now. She often comments, "We would do anything in the world for you," and it is true. She is constantly doing things for us, and though feel small to admit it, I resent many of the things she does. Occasionally she has sent us cooked roasts through the mail, and she makes clothes for our son that I am embarrassed to have him wear.

Incidentally, we are financially secure on a moderate income. I think my husband feels much as I do. V. B. Mother Is Fighting Fear of Rejection Dear V.

B. -Sympathetic tolerance of foibles is the substance of success in human relations, therefore the adult attitude to bring to those whose activities overlap one's own. Thus in relation to Mrs. I suggest. you bear in mind the aforesaid truth, as first at all times in accommodating yourself to her concentration of interest in your household, and to the homespun love she presses upon you, which are expressive of her resistance to her unconscious fear of becoming the "forgotten woman" in her son's life.

It is also important, however, to sympathetically accept your own inward rebellious feelings of "I wish she wouldn't." That is to say, you shouldn't feel guilty (or small) because Templeton and Mrs. Templeton, Helen Traubel, Dorothy and Herbert eld, Felix Knight but OF COURSE there were Brooklynites the Anthony McAllisters, the James McAllisters, Mr. and Mrs. Adrian Etzel, Mrs. Edward Ward MacMahon, and her two sons, Tom and Jim MacMahon, Mr.

and Mrs. Frederick E. Rieger and Mr. and Mrs. Henry C.

Birgel. A VERY SPECIAL, GRADUATION party was given by Miss Florielou Griffin, of Mrs. Frank Ellsworth Griffin of 1098 E. 17th St. and the late Mr.

Griffin, at her Summer home at Pilgrim Lodge, Essex, Conn. The recent graduate of Adelphi College entertained eight young women who were graduated with her on June 16. They were Merle Stickeler of Brooklyn and Manasquan, N. J. Marion Liotta of Brooklyn, Jane Homer of East Rockaway, Joan Squires and Emily Mary Goodwin of Rockville Center, Mary Lou Post of Freeport, Bea Nuovo of Flushing and Geraldine Arizzo of Jackson Heights.

The week was spent swimming and boating and was highlighted with the initiation of the girls to Pilgrim Lodge, continuing until3 a.m! And all the time old fashioned games such as coffee pot and musical instruments were played. you don't feel grateful. Wife's Entitled to Her Feelings As you evaluate your feelings objectively, recognizing their right to exist, as a perfectly normal private reaction to pestering, you will be more at peace with yourself, hence better organized, psychologically, to deal philosophically with Mrs. B. No doubt Mrs.

B's exertions leave your husband bored and thankless, too, wishing she wouldn't treat him as a schoolboy, yet also feeling guilty about his supposed ingrate reactions. For advice: Without anxiety, apology or hostility, take a tranquit stand on behalf of your adult married right to plan your social calendar (or keep it open) with principal reference to your own ideas of how to invest your time to best advantage, while showing equitable consideration to all branches of the family. And that means (1) not feeling booked or hooked by her invitations issued months in advance, and (2) remaining unmoved by her nagging complaints about your other interests. M. H..