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-Just Between Girl and Date Argue Continually; Warned Romance Cannot Survive By NANCY MOTTRAM (Q.) Dear Nancy--There must be a jinx on our Saturday night dates. Not one passes without a fight, and over the silliest things. He's either very late in calling for me, or we can't agree on where to go, or double dating doesn't appeal to one of us after its all set, etc. And so it goes. I really believe that after the first few words, we're at odds just for the principle of disagreeing.

This can't keep on, and neither of us wants it to -underneath it all, we do care a lot and want to stay together. But how can we avoid these steady argu- Nancy Mottram ments? Nancy Mottram You may not want a breakup, but certainly paving the way for one. You that once it starts, instead of compromiseven flipping a coin in fairness, you set deliberately annoy each other. And the start curing that fighting habit is before At the first sign, stop everything and talk it over, until you late, esk him to warn if you want a double date, all those dangerous can become an issue and be avoided then, and for agree. If he's going to be you.

Decide beforehand and with whom. Get points settled before they your arguments will good. (Q.) Dear Nancy -Shortly after my steady and I agreed on a friendly parting of the ways, he went into the service. We didn't see each other before he left, and the only news I've had of him is through his sister, who's a good friend of mine. I haven't changed my mind about staying just friends, but I would like to write to him.

Still, wouldn't it seem strange to him to get a letter from me after everything? What could I use as an excuse? (A.) Why should you need one? After all, you agreed to be friends -what's more natural than writing to a pleasant acquaintance, giving the gossip around town and bringing him up to date on all the people he knows? That's exactly what your letter should be, newsy and interesting, with no personal touches or excuses. Send it off, and it's almost a certainty that you'll receive a reply, starting a solid correspondence. If you have a school, family or friend problem, Nancy can help you. Letters are answered in. this column.

The betrothal of Miss Fuchs to Robert Wagenknecht, son of Mr. and Mrs. Emil Wagenknecht of Roosevelt, is announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Walter H.

Fuchs of Valley Stream. Miss Fuchs is a graduate. of Valley Stream Central High School and is now empoyed by the Richmond Hill Savings Bank. Mr. Wagenknecht, an alumnus of Hempstead High School, is now studying electronics at Hofstra College, Hempstead.

Brayshaw-Barnes Betrothal Made Known Miss Jean Fuchs Will Be Married Mr. and Mrs. John C. Brayshaw of Rockville Centre announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Joan A. Brayshaw, to H.

Daniel Barnes, son of Mr. and Mrs. Barnes of Rockville Centre. Miss Brayshaw is a graduate of South Side High Rockville Centre, and will enter Katharine Gibbs School, Manhattan, in the Fall. Her fiance, also an alumnus of South Side High School, attended Southern Methodist University, Dallas, and is a senior at Adelphi College, where he was president of Phi Lambda Rho fraternity.

Miss Mona Waters Honored at Party Miss Mona Waters, debutante daughter of Mr. and Mrs. James J. Waters of Pond View, Lawrence, was feted last night by her parents at a cocktail at their country home followed by a supper at the Lawrence Beach. Club, where Lester Lanin's orchestra played for the weekly dance.

The debutante, who was graduated from the Sacred Heart Convent, Manhattan, will go to Briarcliff College in the Fall. She will be introduced to New York society at a dinner-dance to be held Dec. at the River Club. Manhattan. Jane Marie Wilson, Mr.

Hanley Will Wed Mrs. Thomas C. Wilson of 75 Kenwood Court, Rockville Centre, has announced the engagement of her daughter, Miss Jane Marie Wilson, to Charles E. Hanley, son of Mr. and Mrs.

George Hanley of 51 S. Forest also Rockville Centre. Miss Wilson, daughter of the late Thomas C. Wilson. was graduated from South Side High School and Endicott Junior College, Beverly, Mass.

Mr. Hanley was' graduated from Chaminade High School, Mineola, and St. Michael's College, Burlington, Vt. He is with the Radio Corporation of America. He is a Navy veteran.

LEADER Miss Geraldine D. Santangelo has been elected president of the Junior League of the Ital- ian Board of Guardians. The board sponsors a Summer camp at Wappinger Falls for needy children. JULY 8, 1951 19 Mary A. Stonitsch's Marriage Announced Mrs.

Harold B. Chase Jr. Miss Brugnolotti's Bridal Made Known Miss Catherine Ann Brugnolotti, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph L.

Brugnolotti of 192 30th was married June 23 at St. John the Evangelist Church to Harold Brooks Chase son of Mr. and Mrs. Harold Brooks Chase of New Haven, Conn. The reception was held at the Villa Roma.

The bride wore a gown, of embossed organdy with a bouffant skirt over taffeta, with an off-the-shoulder collar and a crown of orange blossoms, from which fell illusion fingertip veil. She carried gardenias and stephanotis. Miss Geraldine Brugnolotti, sister of the bride, was maid of honor. She wore a foam green gown of organdy and matching picture hat. Gordon Chase, brother of the bridegroom, was best man.

The bride attended Long Island University and is an derwriter for Fidelity and Casualty of New York. Mr. Chase Jr. served as battalion sergeant major in World War I. He is a student at Columbia University.

Aftr a wedding trip to Quebec, the couple will reside in the Bronx. Joan M. Alexander, Ralph Hansen Are Wed Mr. and Mrs. Arthur R.

Alexlander of Medellin, Colombia, South America, announce the marriage of Mr. Alexander's daughter, Miss Joan Marie Alexander of 243 Ryerson to Ralph D. Hansen of 192 Washington Park, son of Mr. and Mrs. Bjarne Hansen of Boiceville, The ceremony was performed yesterday afternoon in the Queen of All Saints Church by the Rev.

H. N. Culkin. reception held the Tavern on the Green, Manhattan. Mr.

Alexander, who arrived here 10 days ago with Mrs. Alexander, gave his daughter in marriage. Miss Mary Agnes Owen and Fielding McGuire were the attendants. The bride wore a gown of white tissue faille made with a bolera jacket and long full skirt. Her veil of illusion had a headpiece of the same material as her gown and she carried white orchids.

Miss Owen wore a tissue faille gown made in the same style as the bride's but of a pale lilac shade. She had a sequin head band and carried purple orchids. Mrs. Hansen was graduated from St. Angela, Hall last month.

She daughter of the late Mrs. Angelique Langvein Alexander. Mr. Hansen was graduated from Fleischmanns High School, Ulster County, New York. He served for two and years with the U.S.

Navy World War II. one The couple will live in Brooklyn on their return from a trip to the Catskill Mountains. Catherine Conaghan's Betrothal Made Known Mr. and Mrs. James Conaghan of 738 St.

John's Place, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Catherine Conaghan, Harold DeRienzo, son of Mr. and Mrs. Hector DeRienzo of 107-19 130th St. Richmond Hill. Miss Conaghan was graduated from St.

Joseph's Commercial High School and Mr. DeRienzo is an alumnus of John Adams High School. Camr-Aria Catherine Conaghan Miss Mary A. Stonitsch, daugter of Mr. and Mrs.

Frank J. Stonitsch of Cedarhurst, became the bride July 1 of Robert L. Fraissinet, son of Mr. and Mrs. Clarence E.

Fraissinet of Glen Ridge, N. J. The ceremony took place in St. Joachim's R. C.

Church, Cedarhurst and a reception followed at the Lawrence Country Club. Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a of white bouffant embroidered organdy, an illusion veil attached to a matching Juliet cap and she carried white orchids and gypsophila. Miss Dorothea Stonitsch was maid of honor for her sister and wore white embroidered organdy over maize taffeta and carried yellow rosebuds and blue delphinium. Miss Mary Halligan and Miss Marie Cullen were bridesmaids. They wore white embroidered organdy over aqua taffeta and carried pink rosebuds and gypsophila.

John Mott Fraissinet was. best man for his brother and ushers, Springfield, were Pa. Rudyard and Mr. Eldridge C. John Herbert of Manhattan.

After a wedding trip to Canada the couple will live in Valley Stream. Mrs. Fraissinet was graduated from New Paaltz State Teachelers College and is a teacher at the Shaw Avenue School, Valley Stream. Her husband was graduated from Yale University and is with the Texas Company, Manhattan. La Molthe-Teunissen Mrs.

William R. Weaver William R. Weaver Weds Miss Henneberry Miss Nancy Louise Henneberry, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Walter Carlin Henneberry of "Tulsa, was married June 30 to William Ramsay Weaver, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Ralph Rogers Weaver, Roslyn Estates. The Rev. John W. Van Zanten officiated at the cere.

mony in the Roslyn Presbyterian Church. The bride wore a bouffant gown of white embroidered gandy, fashioned with fitted bodice, stand-up collar and long sleeves. A matching cap held the shoulder length veil place and she carried an old. fashioned nosegay of white roses, larkspur and lillies of valley. Miss Anita Andreen Tulsa, was maid of honor.

She wore a ballet-length aqua pique gown and carried un-nosegay of talisman roses. The bridesmaids were Mrs. Frederick H. Mold, St. Johnsbury, and Miss Ann Weaver, Roslyn Estates, both sister of the bridegroom.

Their lavender pique gowns matched maid of honor's gown and they carried nosegays of violets. Kenneth B. Berol of Philadelphia, was best man. The ushers were Frederick Mold, brother-in-law of the bridegroom, and Ramsay R. Taubert of Roslyn Estates.

Mrs. Weaver graduated from Radcliffe College, Cambridge, Mass. Mr. Weaver attended Worcester Academy and is graduate of Harvard University. He served in the U.

Navy for three years during World War I. He is associated with Brittain, Barry New York City. Mr. Weaver and his bride will reside in Manhattan after a trip to Nantucket Island, Massachusetts. Marian Feltham, Mr.

Russell Engaged Mr. and Mrs. Jerry Feltham of 559 E. 26th St. announce the engagement of their daughter Miss Marian Feltham to Robert D.

Russell of, son of Aleon Photographer Marian Feltman Mrs. Sophie Russell of 2066 Haring and the late Mr. Edmund N. Russell. Miss Feltham is a graduate of Midwood High School and studied at Brooklyn College.

She is historian of Bedford Chapter, Order of the Eastern Star. Mr. Russell is a graduate of James Madison High School, served with the U. S. Navy.

He is employed by Moore McCormack Lines. Gazzola-Valentine Mr. and Mrs. Raphael Valentine of 192 Berkeley Place announce the marriage of their daughter, Miss Marie Valentine, to George W. Gazzola, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Attilio Gazzola of 324 E. 90th Manhattan. The ceremony took place June 24 at the R. C.

Church of St. Francis Xavier and was followed by a reception at the Terrace, 3111 Ocean Parkway. The bride wore Chantilly lace lover satin and a French illusion veil. She carried a cascade of sweet peas and baby's breath. Mrs.

A. Simmonelli served as matron of honor and wore blue net over taffeta. She carried an old-fashioned bouquet of pink roses. Her husband, Mr. Simmonelli, was best man.

After a honeymoon trip upState, the couple will reside in Brooklyn, Mrs. John H. Haberer Maureen T. Hastings Bride of Mr. Haberer The marriage of Miss, Maureen Therese Hastings, daughter of Mrs.

James P. Hastings of 3447 82d Jackson Heights, to John Henry Haberer, son of Mr. and Mrs. H. Northam Haberer of Lowville, N.

took place June 30 in St. Joan of Arc's Roman Catholic Church, Jackson Heights. The nuptial mass was celebrated by the Rev. John S. Boylan, pastor.

A reception was held at the Forest Hills Inn. Given in marriage by her brother, Lt. Brian T. Hastings, U. S.

A. the bride wore a dress of Chantilly lace and tulle. Her veil was of silk ilMiss lusion. The Dorothy maid M. of Connor honor, Brooklyn, wore a gown of pink starched chiffon over pink taffeta.

The other were Marguerite McGuire and Miss Marygrace Calhoun, both of Brooklyn. They wore gowns of purple starched chiffon over pink taffeta. Raymond Cyerwinski of Low. ville was best man. Ushers were J.

Kevin Hastings, brother of the bride; Gerald Miller of Lowville, Walter Bateman of Lowville, and David Gunsallus of Buffalo, N. Y. An alumna of St. Joseph's College for Women the bride holds a Master's degree from Teacher's College, Columbia University. She is an instructor at the Anne Reno Institute, Manhattan.

Mr. Haberer, a graduate of Syracuse University, is a member of Sigma Chi fraternity. A veteran of World War II, he is a structural engineer associated with Abbott, Merkt Company, Manhattan. Following a honeymoon trip to Bermuda the couple will reside in Jackson Heights. Miss Dorothy Lee Feted at Shower Miss Veronica Stabile of 532 E.

42d St. honored Miss Dorothy Lee of 574 E. 42d St. at a surprise shower on June 30 in honor of Miss Lee's entering the Novitiate of the Sisters of Mercy, Syosset, in September. The guests present were the Rev.

William O'Leary, the Rev. Raymond Rau, the Rev. Anthony Bevilacqua, Mr. and Mrs. Daniel Lee, Mr.

and Mrs. E. J. Stevenson, Mr. and James Bassett, Mr.

and Mrs. Louis Stabile, Mrs. Harold Hibner, Mrs. Joseph Spratt, Miss KathSpratt, Mrs. Frank McLaughlin, Mrs.

James Lillis, Miss Irene Barret. Miss Loretta Hogan, Miss Kathleen Callan, Mrs. James Cloonan, Miss Bessie Lynch, Miss Margaret Finnegan, Miss Virginia Lee, Miss Frances Stabile, Miss Peggy McAlinden, Miss Snookie Massot, Ms. J. McKoe, Mrs.

William Spelane, Mrs. Harold Schinnagel and Mrs. Steven Paprocki. Mr. and Mrs.

Lawrence E. Inconiglios of 1475 73d St. announce the birth of their second child, a daughter, Lauren Immaculate Inconiglios. June 28, at the Victory Memorial Hospital. The Inconiglios' other chils is a son, Edward Lawrence Inconiglios.

BETROTHED Miss Ruth Fredericks, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Albert Fredericks of 1023 85th is the fiancee of Floyd F. Fogleman of Reading, Pa. She is associated with Bell Telephone Company and Mr.

Fogleman is associated with the A. G. Hagstrom Company, of Manhattan. Eleanor T. Ceonzo Eleanor T.

Ceonza Becomes Fiancee (A.) admit ing or off to time to it begins. Sylvia R. Miller S. R. Miller Engaged To Mr.

Schneier Mr. and Mrs. Isadore S. Miller of Paterson, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Sylvia Ruth Miller, to Allen Melvin Schneier, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph Schneier of 1800 E. 12th St. Miss Miller was graduated from Eastside High School and Stephens College, Columbia, where she was elected to Phi Theta Kappa, national honorary scholastic fraternity. She received her B.A. from Smith College, Northamptonte and has work at Northwestern University and the University of Denver.

Mr. Schneier attended cester Polytechnic Institute and Texas A. and M. He received his degree from New York University. During World War II he served with the Navy Air Corps in the Pacific theater.

Ellen Jane Davis Is Engaged to Be Wed Mr. and Mrs. Sydney X. Davis of Woodmere announce the engagement of their daugh-26 ter, Miss Ellen Jane, Davis, to Ernest L. Rosenthal, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Leo Rosenthal of Manhattan. The couple will be married Sept. 2 at "Rockledge," Croton-on-Hudson, home of the prospective bride's uncle and aunt, Mr. and Mrs.

Aaron Lipper. Miss Davis was graduated from Woodmere High School and the York Phoenix School of Design. Mr. Rosenthal attended the City College, of New York. He served for three and one half years with the U.

S. Army Ski Troops and Intelligence. Lennon-St. Clair Miss Alice St. Clair, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Charles St. Clair of Hewlett, became the bride of James Lennon, son of Mr. and Mrs. Andrew Lennon of Valley Stream, on July 1, at a ceremony performed in the Holy Name of Mary R.

C. Church, Hewlett. A reception was held at the home of the birde's sister. Mrs. D.

A. Hendrickson, 1 Delmonico Place, Valley Stream. The bride wore a white satIn and lace gown, a fingertip length illusion veil attached to a lace coronet and she carried white roses Miss Mary Kearnings, cousin of the bridegroom, was maid of honor. Pvt. Charles St.

Clair, stationed at Fort Campbell, was his brother's best man. Cunneen-Taylor Mrs. William J. Cunneen of Lynbrook has announced the betrothal of her daughter, Miss Mary Catherine Cunneen, to John Louis Taylor, son of John A. Taylor of Van Cott Hempstead, and the late Mr.

Taylor. The prospective bride, daugh-. ter of the late Mr. Cunneen, was graduated from Lynbrook High School. Her fiance, an alumnus of Hempstead High School, is a veteran of World War II and is employed in the Garden City Post Office.

Mr. and Mrs. Joseph A. Ceonzo of 537 Rogers announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Eleanor Theresa Ceonzo, to Pfc. Nicholas V.

Torello, son of Mr. and Mrs. Michael Torello of 286 Rutland Road. Miss Ceonzo is a graduate of Girls Commercial High School and is employed as a secretary by the Metal Thermit Corporation. Private Torello, a graduate of Bishop Loughlin Memorial High School, is serving in the United States Marine Corp.

He was employed by the Singer Manufacturing Company. Miss Betty Staller Becomes Mrs. Niles The marriage of Miss Joyce Betty Staller, daughter of and Mrs. Max Staller of Westbury, to William Irwin Niles, son of Mr. and Mrs.

M. D. Beidler-Viken Mrs. William I. Niles Nissenbaum of Brooklyn, took place at the home of the bride's parents last Sunday.

Rabbi Harry E. Schwartz officiated. A reception followed in the garden. The bride wore a blush pink gown and carried white orchids. Her maid of honor, Miss Corinne Staller of Westbury, wore a cherry red organdy frock and carried an old-fashioned bouquet.

Arthur Niles of Brooklyn was best man. The couple, after a wedding trip to New England and Lake George, will make their home in Westbury. The bride is a graduate of Windsor Mountain School, Lenox, and attended Olivet College and Keuka College. She is a senior at Adelphi College. Mr.

Niles attended Cornell University, received his B.S. degree in electrical engineering at Virginia Polytechnic Institute and is a senior at New York Law School. He is employed at the Reeves Instrument Corporation, Manhattan. Martha J. McGuffin's Marriage Made Known Mrs.

Robert A. McGuffin of 344 Pacific Cedarhurst, announces the marriage, on June 30, of her daughter, Miss Martha Jane McGuffin to William Powell, son of Mr. and Mrs. Clarence J. Powell of Romney, West Va.

The Rev. Herbert K. Robinson of the Lawrence Methodist Church performed the ceremony in the McGuffin home where a reception followed. The bride, daughter of the late Mr. McGuffin, wore a gown of white nylon net, a fingertiplength illusion veil attached to a coronet of pearls and rhinestones, and she carried white roses with an orchid center.

Mrs. Edward A. Powell of Clarksburg, W. was matron of honor and Mr. Powell was best man.

After a wedding trip to Ber. muda, the couple will live in Arlington, Va. The bride attended West Virginia University, where she received a B.S. degree in art and has been an art teacher at South Side High School, Rockville Centre. Her husband, an alumnus of same university, is with the American Mining Congress, Washington, D.

C. A tax attorney, he also maintains an office in Romney. "GOING PLACES?" PHONE MA. 4-6200 FOR IDEAS A.M.-5 P.M. Hess-Finkelstein Wedding Today Mr.

and Mrs. Henry Hess of 4612 13th Ave. announce the marriage of their daughter, Miss Judith Hess, to Pfc. Martin Finkelstein, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Samuel Finkelstein of 2182 Cruger St. in the Bronx. They will be married today at the Savoy Gardens, 408 Ditmars Gardens. The bride is a graduate of New Utrecht High School. Mr.

Finkelstein was graduated from City College and it now in the Army, stationed in Camp Gordon, Ga. Vang Studio Mrs. Anthony Karkosza Miss Irene Dwojacki Bride of A. Karkosza The marriage of Miss Irene Dwojacki, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph Dwojacki of 627 47th to Anthony Karkosza, son of Mr. and Mrs. A. Karkosza of 333 15th took place June 23 at a nuptial mass at Our Lady of Czenstochowa Church. Monsignor Bol Eslaus Puchalsiki officiated the ceremony which was followed by a reception at Michels.

The bride was gowned in lace over white satin. Her veil of illusion was fastened to a cloche of orange blossoms. She carried a prayer book with white orchids and stephanotis. Mrs. Sylvia Drabicki, sister of the bride, was matron of honor.

Her dress was of dusty lace and she carried purple larkspur and pink rose buds. A cap of matching flowers encircled her hair. Julius Karkosza was his brother's best man. The usher was Anthony Drabicki. Mrs.

Karkosza is a graduate of Bay Ridge High and Hunter College. Her husband is a graduate of Kings Point Academy and is employed as a cadet engineer for Consolidated Edison Company. After the honeymoon the couple will reside in Brooklyn. Virginia Valente Bride of Mr. Couch Mr.

and Mrs. Ralph Valente of 8667 23d Ave. announce the marriage of their daughter, Miss Virginia Valente, to George R. Couch, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Robert Couch of Los Angeles, Cal. The ceremony took place June 30 at St. Mary Mother of Jesus Church and was followed by a reception at the Terrace, Ocean Parkway and the Boardwalk. The bride wore white chiffon lace over satin and a Chantilly lace veil attached to a seeded pearl crown. She carried white orchids with orange blossoms and lilies of the valley.

Her sister, Mrs. Frances La Spina, served as matron of honor and wore American Beauty starched chiffon and yellow roses. The bridesmaids were the Misses Julia Valente, sister of the bride; Enza Castelluzzo, the bride's cousin, and Rose Mary Rizzuti. They wore yelchiffon and carried sweetheart bouquets of American roses. Joseph La Spina served as man.

Louis Valente, the bride's brother; Emanuel Castelluzzo, her cousin. and Jimmy Cascia were the ushers. The bride is a graduate of Lafayette High School and is associated with the Great American Insurance Company. The bridegroom is in the U. S.

Navy and has been in service for the past three and half years. After a trip to the Pocono Mountains, the will reside at 1730 61st St. Miriam E. Isaacson Becomes Affianced Mr. and Mrs.

Fred J. Isaacson of Lawrence have announced the engagement of their daughter, Miss Miriam Elna Isaacson, to Richard Morton Frankfort, son of Mr. and Mrs. Fred Frankfort of Cedarhurst. Miss Isaacson attended Brandeis University, Waltham, for two years and will continue her studies in the Fall at Adelphi College.

Mr. Frankfort attended Columbia University and the University of Delaware. A November wedding is planned. CURRENT 2 DIVIDEND BROOKLYN FEDERAL SAVINGS and LOAN ASSOCIATION 91 Court Street. Brooklyn TRiangle 5-08-17 ARE YOU A SMARTIE ABOUT TRAVEL? Do you know how and what to pack for trains and planes and boats and such? Many of our readers, going on vacation trips, request tips on how to save space in suitcases or trunks, how to polish up old looking luggage what to take along and what they can do without.

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