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hat WI MEN Are Society Rosemary Mr. Uffner Mr. and Mrs. Charles engagement of their Arthur Uffner, son of Rosemary Kreitzer-Barlow Betrothal Made Known I. Rockmore Mr.

and I The engagement of Miss Ellen Kreitzer and Seldon Barlow has been announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs. R. Kreitzer of 1366 St. Mark's Ave.

He is the son of Mr. and Mrs. M. Barlow of 353 Roselle Cedarhurst. The couple will be feted at a party Dec.

1 at the Barlow home. Miss Kreitzer1 is a junior fashion model. Mr. Barlow is asso-: ciated in his father's firm, the Commercial Mirror Corporation. Harriet Nadell's Engagement Revealed Mr.

ard Mrs. Michael Schreier of 388 Midwood St. have announced the engagement of their daughter, Miss Harriet Nadell, to David P. Koske, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Julius Koske of 2401 Newkirk Ave. Miss Nadell was graduated from New Utrecht High School and is associated with Lederle Laboratories. Mr. Koske was graduated from Brooklyn Technical High School and attended City College of New York. He served as captain in the artillery during World War IL.

Arline Wishengrad Fiancee of Mr. Marin The marriage of Miss Arline Wishengrad of 196 Rockaway Parkway to Murray D. Marin, 605 Beech Terrace, Bronx, A N. took place Saturday night at hall, the 1128 Twin Eastern Cantors Parkway. wedding 8 The bride, who was given in marriage by her parents, Mr.

and Mrs. Sidney Wishengrad, is the niece of Morton Wishengrad, author of the Eternal Light radio programs heard over the National Broadcasting Company's facilities. Mr. Marin, the son of Mr. and Mrs.

Samuel Marin, studied at the City College of New York and is a supervisor in the national office of the United Jewish Appeal. Rockmore, Engaged of Brooklyn announce the Miss Rosemary Rockmore, to Mrs. Samuel A. Uffner of Woodmere. Miss Rockmore was graduated from Highland Manor.

West Long Branch, N. and the American University, Washington, D. where she received a Bachelor of Science degree. Mr. Uffner, who is a lieutenant (j.g.) in the Naval Reserve, served in the Pacific during World War II.

He was graduated from Syracuse University, where he received a Bachelor of Arts degree. Mr. Utfner is an executive with the Beaumart Company of New York. Josephine Fernandez Is Engaged to Wed Mr. and Mrs.

Manuel Fernandez of 413 Clinton St. announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Josephine Fernandez, to Richard Avvenire, also of Brooklyn. Miss Fernandez attended Mother Cabrini High School and the Washington School for Secretaries. She is secretary at the Hotel Buying Service, Inc. Mr.

Avvenire served four years with the Naval Reserve, four years with the Army Air Forces and three years with the Army Air Forces Reserve. is associated with Imperial Plating Company. The wedding will take place in the Spring. Arline C. Jaffe's Betrothal Announced He Betty Quaritius Will Be Wed Dec.

15 Mrs. D. Irving Jaffe of Hempstead announces the engagement of her daughter, Miss Arline Charlotte Jaffe, to Lewis Mortimer Batkin, son of Nathan Batkin of 2705 Kings Highway. Miss Jaffe, daughter of the late Mr. Jaffe, is the granddaughter of the late Mr.

and Mrs. Herman Blumberg. A graduate of Hempstead High School, she is associated with her brothers in the Hempstead Window Shade Company. Mr. Batkin is a graduate of New York University, and Brooklyn Law School.

The couple will be married Jan, 20 at Temple Beth Israel, Hempstead. Plans have been completed for the forthcoming marriage of Miss Betty Quaritius, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Henry C. Quaritius, formerly of Brooklyn and now of De Mott Place, Rockville Centre, to Andrew C.

Munroe, Mr. and Mrs. William C. Munroe of Vernon Rockville Centre, and De Barry, Fla. Dec.

is the date for the wedding. The ceremony will take place at the Rockville Centre Congregational Church and a reception will follow at the Rockville Country Club. Quaritius was graduated from Oceanside High School and Brown's Business School. Mr. Munroe, also a graduate of Oceanside High School, was graduated from the New York Merchant Marine Academy, Fort Schuyler.

Beauty After Forty Always Time for Success! By EDYTH THORNTON MeLEOD Women who have passed the Forty mark with determination to live a new life are becoming more and more important. Everywhere we see well-groomed, mature women who are going into top jobs of opening their own businesses. Women of the stage, radio, and TV are often more entirely without interests. Look successful After Forty than be- around you, see what other fore. Especially is this true of women are doing.

They will inthe movies and radio. These spire you to carve out a stimuwomen have something to give, lating career for yourself. It may be just doing everyday things in a new way or it may be just changing your hairdo. You can achieve what you want even though you don't begin until After Forty. There is always the opportunity for success.

If you have a secret ambiItion. something that you have always wanted to do, trot out that ambition now. Go to work on it. If you concentrate hard enough you can win, even After Forty! War Mothers Plan For Vets' Christmas The Kings County Chapter of American War Mothers held its annual card party in the Hanson Place Y. M.

C. A. recently. Proceeds of the party will go toward Christmas presents for hospitalized veterans at Fort Hamilton Hospital. The group has invited mothers of veterans to attend their meetings at every third Friday of the month.

Holiday Pretties BE AS COMFORTABLE as for the new heir, in the rustle with easy sleeves, flattering skirt. Fashioned by McKettrick taffeta in black and royal, royal, sizes 10 to 18. About for the New You you are pretty while waiting for of tissue taffeta (right), made roll collar and full swinging of dotted rayon paper gray and pink, beige and $15. WAIT IN STYLE in rayon surah fashioned in the McKettrick manner (left), with a swish of skirt, a convertible neckline and the delightful touch of velvet bow and buttons. Styled in rayon surah print, sizes 9 to 17, in blue and taupe, copper and taupe, yellow and gray.

About $15. Meat Loaf Can Be a Treat boil. At once stir in Bring to a full rolling boil boil hard one minute, constantly. Remove from skim, and pour quickly glasses. Paraffin at once.

about seven six-ounce Then if you sauce is special your stake tled grape juice jelly and So many homemakers regard meat loaf as a "pot luck" and serve it apologetically when their food budget is low. This is really a mistake because it is a meat dish that itself to endless variety, and intriguing sauces will give gourmet's touch. This recipe is for a basic meat loaf and is grape juice into a large of the best we've ever tasted, pan. water and mix Add as well as one of the easiest to oughly. Place saucepan prepare.

It's very flexible, too. juice over high heat. Add You may either "dress it up" dered fruit pectin and stir or "dress it down." til mixture comes to a Meat Loaf cup dry bread crumbs cup milk pounds ground beef 2 beaten eggs cup grated onion teaspoon salt teaspoon pepper teaspoon sage Soak bread crumbs in milk: add meat, eggs, onion and seasoning; mix well. on Form in single loaf in loaf pan, Bake one hour. We have found that gleamling grape jelly adds that extra touch of color, in taste, as well as appearance, to your table.

It takes very little time to prepare and will quickly highlight a meat loaf. Using bottled grape juice and powdered fruit pectin, it is possible to have seven 'beautiful jars of bottled grape juice jelly in a matter SAVORY JELLY SAUCE makes is quickly made with pectin. of minutes and at very little cost. Grape Jelly (Using bottled grape juice). cups sugar 1 pint bottled grape juice 1 cup water 1 box powdered fruit pectin To make the jelly.

Measure sugar and set aside. Measure -Daily Gift Suggestion 29 Shopping Days 'Til Christmas FOR THE HOME -A Clock Radio with plus advantages. That "oh-how-I-hate-to-get-up-in-the-morning" habit of oversleeping doesn't stand a chance with the Westinghouse Clock-Radio on duty. For if the selected radio program doesn't wake you up, a businesslike buzzer alarm ten minutes later will do the trick. All you have to do is pre-set the dial for preferred rising time and program, and the radio automatically turns at night and "on" again in the morning.

Through the clock radio, any appliance using up to 1,000 watts can also be controlled automatically. The cabinet is of molded plastic, available in maroon (model 355T5) or ivory (model 356T5). AC only, both models, retail price about $36.95. meal getting lends it a saucethor- holding powun- hard sugar. and stirring heat, into Makes that botmake a savory jelly sauce.

Savory Jelly Sauce Melt three-quarters of a cup grape jelly in a double boiler, add one teaspoon Worcestershire one-quarter teaspoon salt, one-quarter teaspoon paprika, drops tabasco. Mix well -serve hot. Catholic Nurses Kings County Chapter, Registered Professional Catholic Nurses Association, will meet in Shevlin Hall of St. Mary's Hospital tomorrow at 8 p.m. meat loaf a treat.

Jelly Nachamah Group The Nachamah Group of Hadassah is having a card party at 8 p.m. today in the Astor Caterers, 2212 Church Ave. The proceeds will go to Youth Aliyah. The chairman is Mrs. Alice Levitan.

Industrial Nurses The Industrial Nurses of New York State will meet in Syracuse Dec. 1 and 2 to organize the New, York State Association of Industrial Nursing. The Nurse's Notebook Bathroom Safety (Prepared by the Visiting Nurse Association of Brooklyn as a service to friends and patients of the organization.) By ANNE M. GOODRICH, R.N. There are a number of reasons second only to the bedroom as in the house.

The bedroom gets fact that so much time is spent curtains and other household chores, as well as its occupancy at night which makes for the stubbed toes and broken bones when people try to get out of bed in the dark. The bathroom rates its reputation largely because of its construction and also the articles that are kept there. The construction of a bathroom with it's hard fixtures and linoleum or tile floors make falls doubly frequent and doubly dangerous. A person falling in a room which has a rug or even on a hard but open floor surface, is not half so prone to serious injury as when the same person falls in a bathroom where he is very apt to strike his head, back, leg or arm against one of the hard bath room fixtures. Such a fall can result in broken bones.

serious sprains, concusions and even skull fractures. Be Careful There is a very definite way of reducing danger from falls in your home. If every member of the family is made aware of the possibility of injury decides and each of them personally to be careful, the bathroom in your home will be a safer place for all. Another cause of very serious bathroom accidents can be attributed to the fact that most families keep their medicines in the bathroom cupboard. As a matter af fact a well stocked and clearly marked supply of needed drugs and disinfectants why the bathroom is rated being the most dangerous room its reputation by virtue of the there in cleaning and hanging is an asset to the household.

However, in the well-regulated medicine cabinet all drugs are clearly marked, all are in cur. rent use (except staples such as soda bicarbonate, aspirin or whatever disinfectant your physician has prescribed for your child's minor cuts). Any medication intended for external use only, or any medication labeled "poison" should be segregated to the' top shelf and all members of the family should be aware of this arrange. ment. One of the common causes of accidents due to drugs is the taking of the wrong pill or liquid in the mistaken belief that it is something else.

Every member of the family should be instructed to turn on the light and look at the bottle before taking any medication. This is especially important during the night as many ple, awakened by a have gone to the bathroom an aspirin and taken else instead. Always look you take or use any Pioneer Seminar Pioneer Seminar pedheadache, for something before medication. Myrna Loy something to say and in the movies they look the parts that they play, and that's important. Makeup, no matter how cleverly done, fails when it comes to a woman playing the straight role of a mature character, such as a mother, which requires a mature actress, who both looks and acts the part in real life as well as before the camera.

Copy Others I am always much impressed by the women who achieve a new goal After Forty. There is so much of life to live and at no age must you be bored or Snow Ball Frolic Contemporary Comment Set for Jan. 5 By RUTH G. DAVIS Society Editor They're doing it again! The young people at St. Bartholomew's Church, 1227 Pacific are busy making plans for their third annual dance.

This year the event will be held in the gymnasium of the community house and will be sponsored by members of the Twenty-one Plus Club, who were responsible for last year's dance at the St. George Hotel. Since the date is set for Saturday, Jan. 5, the party will be called "Snow Ball Frolic." The music for the evening will be furnished by Russ O'Brien and there will be dancing from 9 p.m. to 12 midnight.

There also will be refreshments served. The dance 'committee includes the Misses Anne Brushaber and Nancy Roberts and D. K. Rice and Charles Wilcox. MRS.

RICHARD FISKE SHAFFER and Miss Gwendolyn Glass were the delegates representing the Junior League of Brooklyn at the annual regional meeting of the Association of the Junior Leagues of America, at the Royal York, Toronto, Canada, last week. Mrs. Shaffer is vice president of the Brooklyn league and chairman of the Toy Ball which will be held at the Pierre, Manhattan, on Nov. 20. In addition to her league activities she is active in the Brooklyn Y.

W. C. A. and served on the executive board of the Parents-Teachers Association The first membership seminar for all club membership chairmen for the Brooklyn Council of Pioneer Women, will be held at the home of Mrs. Harry Stein, membership chairman, today at 1 p.m., at 1611 East 2nd St.

Tillie Ginsburg, national organizational director, will conduct the seminar. Friends Deserted Mary Haworth's Mail Her in Hard Times of Adelphi. Miss Glass serves on the board of the league's Toy Workshop and is vice president of the Berkeley Institute Alumnae Association and director of the New York Mount Holyoke Club. Miss Doris Eldredge, a member of the Brooklyn league, is director of Region 1I and presided over the two days of the session. CHATTER--Miss Lucille Sendach, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Jacob Sendach of 135 Eastern Parkway, enrolled in the Radcliffe College management training program, is working on a four-week field work assignment as a clerical assistant with the John Hancock Mutual Life Insurance Company of Boston. Miss Sendach received her B.S. degree from Syracuse University, where she concentrated in the field of education Miss Sue D'Andrea of 315 84th who was with the American Embassy in Rome, Italy, for two years, has returned home on the Atlantic of the Home Lines by way of Barcelona, Spain, where she visited friends Miss Marilyn Bernstein, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Julius Bernstein of 1004 Eastern Parkway, was a member of the committee for the annual Christmas Carnival at Milwaukee-Downer College, Milwaukee, on Saturday, at which gifts were bought and sold in the interests of scholarship aid to foreign students Dr. and Mrs. Richard Waltman of 606 Empire Boulevard were early Winter vacationers at the Roney Plaza Hotel, Miami Beach, Fla, DEAR MARY HAWORTH married to a fine, dear man adorable, healthy children. In years, fortune has smiled on grateful for it, and eager to show our appreciation of our blessings by doing what good we can. However, things weren't always SO bright for us.

Our income after marriage always was higher than average; but in the hill years it didn't permit us to maintain the standard of living in which we were reared. And because I couldn't keep pace socially, I was dropped or snubbed by old friends and acquaintances. Fortunately those were Eventually the shock eased, but get back to our almost forgotten am happily wisdom and insight. Is Stan right? Am I very wrong? D. L.

and have two the last few Man More Wholesome DEAR D. attitude is larger than us, and we are yours. It appraises and accepts the imperfections of human nature, and goes on to make the best of things. In all probability his rational, realistic philosophy of life is chiefly responsible for the latter -day return of good fortune that you are enjoying. Now that you are riding the crest of prosperity again, it were dangerously nonconstructive to explore old chapters of social rejection and wretchedness, with mind attuned to vindictive sentiments.

May Lack Appeal You speak as if there were only one social group, namely, that into which you were born. When elbowed out of it for lack of money to live expensively, you felt as lost as a soul Haworth in limbo -which suggests that you aren't a Mary very resourceful, co-operative or flexible neighmy busy years. bor in your own right, In your own way, you we were glad to were as much of a material snob as those who standards of let you down. plenty, and it was a joy to be able to give our children more advantages. One by one, we found relatives and fair weather friends welcoming us back to the fold.

I am reluctant to be taken up again by those who barred us socially years ago. I no longer care for them. Stan says, however, "People are like that; that's the world." while he shares my feelings, he believes the lack of money would have forced us out of any similar group. Also he thinks it is to the children's benefit to be accepted again. Give us the benefit of your Stan's idea that the children will benefit by your return, as a family unit, to the background circles that once dismissed you indicates that no alternative opportunities exist, for social affiliations, so far as he knows.

In any case, my advice is to suit your present behavior to Stan's philosophy, and let bygones be bygones, absolutely. M. H. Mary Haworth counsels through. her column.

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