The Brooklyn Daily Eagle from Brooklyn, New York • Page 19

What WI MEN Are Society Armas Lensu To Wed Miss Kelly Mr. and Mrs. John J. Kelly N. announce the engagement ginia Kelly, to A.

Armas Lensu, of Brooklyn. The wedding is The bride-elect was ated from Ridgewood (N. High School with the class of 1944 and is a an alumna of New Jersey State Teachers College at Trenton. Mr. Lensu was graduated from the Hamilton (N.

High School and New Jersey State Teachers College at Trenton. He received his master's degree from Rutgers University. Mr. served in Works" War II as 'staff sergeant in the U.S. Air Force, two of which years he served, in the Middle East.

Miss Kelly and Mr. Lensu are members of the faculty of the Manasquan (N. schools. Mariel T. Lynch, Mr.

McCarthy Engaged Announcement is made of the engagement of Miss Muriel T. Lynch, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Mark Lynch of 1113 Avenue to Robert McCarthy, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Charles McCarthy of 2181 Bedford Ave. Miss Lynch is a graduate of St. Brendan's High School and the Caledonian Hospital School of Nursing. Mr. McCarthy is associated with the Pennsylvania Railroad.

Shirley C. Fineberg's Betrothal Announced Announcement has been made by Mr. and Mrs. Isaac Fineberg of 2301 80th St. 'of the engagement of their daughter, Miss Shirley Cecelia Fineberg, to Dr.

Meyer H. Slatkin, son of the late Mr. and Mrs. Charles Slatkin of 470 Ocean Ave. Miss: Fineberg was graduated from Brooklyn College.

She is doing graduate work in psychology and is on the social service staff of the Columbia Presbyterian Medical Center. Dr. Slatkin is a specialist in dermatology. He is on the staff of Columbia University, Shirley Cecilia Fineberg Feminine Fashions Provoke Fan Flirtation Revival By to Hos- years Diof- the Vir- place Plaza, of 391 Rock Road, Glen Rock, of their daughter, Miss M. son of Mr.

and Mrs. Oscar Lensu planned for June. Vanderbilt Clinic, Beth-El pital and City Hospital. During war he four with the 88th Infantry as a combat medical ficer. He is a major in Army Reserve.

The wedding will take this Spring at the Hotel Manhattan. Patricia M. Viverito Fiancee, of Mr. Liegey Dr. and Mrs.

Joseph A. Viverito of 115 5th Garden City, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss tricia Marie Viverito, to Ga briel M. Liegey son of Prof. and Mrs. Liegey of 31-36 Mott Far Rockaway.

The wedding will take place in June. Miss Viverito is a graduate of St. Agnes Academy, Rockville Centre, and attended the College of Notre Dame of Maryland, Baltimore. Mr. Liegey, a graduate of Bishop Loughlin High School and Fordham University, served in the Navy in the Pacific in World War I1 and is studying for his master's degree at New York University.

He is with the Long Island Lighting Company. Alice Kutscher Is Married The marriage of Miss Alice Kutscher, daughter of Mrs. Alice Kutscher of Richmond Hill, to Pharmacist's Mate Charles E. McDermott, U. S.

son of Mrs. Mary A. McDermott of 5621 5th took place March 9 at Our Lady of Victory Chapel, Naval Base, Norfolk, Va. Chaplain Dunne officiated. A reception followed at the Hotel Monticello, Norfolk.

The bride was given in marriage by Edward Fay of Brooklyn. She wore a white lace gown and veil. Mrs. Helen Kelly, aunt of the bridegroom, was matron of honor. Machinist's Mate Thomas, McTernan, U.

S. was best man. The couple spent their honeymoon in Williamsburg, Va. Mary Dickman Fiancee of Mr. Heany Mr.

and Mrs. William Dickman of 438 61st St. announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Mary Dickman, to Mrs. Patrick 'Heany 664 60th John Heany, of. Mr.

and Street. Miss Dickman, an alumna of Bay Ridge High School, is employed by the Benrus Watch Company. Mr. Heany received his B. A.

from St. John's College and is employed by the Government. He served for three years in the Army during the last war. ELIZABETH LIPS Are those nasty ole bachelors being elusive, girls? Well, toss out those love philters, those miracle creams and those books on how-to-catchyour-man, and dash right out and get yourself a fan. The word has gotten around in the fashion world that these coquetish accessories of yesteryear are coming back and with them the "language of the fans." It's a code with which a girl could daintily tell a young man make himself scarce without so much as opening her mouth.

On the other hand, having mastered it, any girl can out-belle those maids south of the MasonDixon line in the department. Here's a f'r instance. You meet a certain dreamboat, let's say. He hovers about you, his eyes telling you you've made conquest (it says here.) Butthe poor dear is tongue tied, or just plain difficult. You would like to tell the strong and silent one that you would not be at all averse, to seeing him again.

do? A proper young lady would (never be so bold: as to take the offensive. Not in SO many words, anyway. And that's where note fan comes in. You may believe it, my dear. But all a girl in such a predicament would have to do would be to rest the shut fan on her right eye.

That's all. In sign language means: "When will I see you?" And, voila! No male could overlook a charming challenge like that. will Of have course, that means that he learn the signals, too. But that's been no. obstacle to the young ladies who've been adding these graceful gadgets to their accessories.

We asked A. S. Bremer, THEN he eagerly asks you, "At what time?" In answer you open the fan to the number of sticks designating the hour. On Vacation Miss Catherine A. Farley and her nephew, Frank Doyle both of Brooklyn, are spending a vacation at the Kenwood Club, Hamilton, Bermuda.

Mr. Doyle is a senior at Brooklyn Preparatory School. Mr. and Mrs. John Glaze Jr.

of Selwyn Village, Charlotte, N. announce the birth of a son on March 23. Mrs. Glaze is the former Doris Jorgensen, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Svend Jorgensen of Kew Gardens and Lake Mahopac, N. Y. Easter Week Bridge Contemporary Comment Party Well Attended By RUTH G. DAVIS Society Editor As usual it was old home week at the annual Easter Monday bridge party given by the managers of the Immaculate Conception Day Nursery and again held in the ballroom of the Hotel Commodore, Manhattan. Just about everybody was present and those that weren't couldn't attend because they were ill.

So it was chitchat from the time the guests entered until the very end although we must say there were a few serious bridge players among the capacity crowd. And again, as is the custom with the Immaculate Conception Day Nursery party the prizes were superb. The table prizes were pretty hand embroidered handkerchiefs. This the grand prize was divided up. Five year hundred dollars went to Mrs.

D. A. Phelan of 195 Greene $300 to Mrs. Lutz of 6808 Forest Ave. and $200 to Mrs.

W. C. Cornell Jr. of 1210 Liberty Ave. Among other winners of awards were Mrs.

C. R. Smith, an air-cooling floor fan; Miss Kitty McQuade, a portable radio; Mrs. A. H.

Peters, a basket of cheer; Mrs. John E. McKeen, an electric grill; Mrs. Frederick H. Lohman a case of champagne; Mrs.

R. A. Garrod, a blanket; Mrs. E. J.

Rotchford, a pink tablecloth and napkins; Mrs. Grace Nolan, a basket of cheer; Mrs. J. Witherow, a Thermos jug, and Mrs. E.

May Glothing, a crystal cocktail shaker. The proceeds of the party go entirely to the nursery which was founded in February of 1893 at the request of the late Bishop Charles E. McDonnell. It has provided nursery care for children of working mothers continuously since that date and is one of the few remaining it's only the beginning of great revival. "It won't be overnight," said.

"It will be gradual. it's a natural accessory with today's feminine styles, bouffant skirt and the chignon. There's a certain beauty holding the properly. adds grace and poise." Dainty little lace fans are best sellers now, along with sequin-studded net and flowered taffetas, Mr. Bremer asserted.

But smaller versions of the ostrich plume fans, made almost exactly like those of quarter century ago, are holding their own. Only they're called "debutante he explained. Mr. Bremer considers language "amusing and "The fan speaks for itself. Every movement has a meaning of its own." Advice to Males That's why, he said, smart young man should fan language, or find himself left out in the cold.

"He might miss out on good dates," Mr. Bremer grinned. Which presents a bit of AS THIS MODEL presses the half opened fan to her lips, problem. If a girl drons she "You fan today, she'd better drop is saying, may kiss me." The beauties of long booklet with it. ago spoke of love with their fan, each position conveying An amusingly illustrated a different meaning.

Houbigant, famous French perfumer, booklet offered by Houbigant, the perfumer, is just the is reviving this romantic language in this city with a wer for those who want to booklet called, "Speak Love With the Language of Fans." this particular Romance This booklet will be available at perfume counters at guage to their repertoire. The maker of "Chantilly" leading stores in April and will be distributed at no perfume, a fragrance inspired charge. by a lace fan, Houbigant distribute the booklets free signer for the Bernard looking back over charge in local department Fan Company of Manhattan, 37 years in the field, declared: stores, starting next week. which has been supplyng Fred- "It's simple. The girl is coming It's aim, the cover proclaims, erick Loser's with fans for back.

The feminine girl." is to help "maids to years, just how folks in the fan This has been the trend for and proceeds to pass along industry account for this. the last five years, he estimated, all who would learn, the Mr. Bremer, an amiable and vouchsafed the opinion that of coquetry by code. YOU lend mystery to the coming meeting, saying to him, "Do not betray our secret." You do this by covering the left ear with the opened fan. HIS masculine pride is NOW he may try to wounded.

When you see kiss you! But, as a belle how deeply you've hurt of the 18th century you him, you ask, "Why do don't allow this -yet. To you misunderstand me?" tell him "Do not be SO by gazing pensively rash" you threaten at the unfolded fan. with the shut fan. Buttonhole Know-How; Important Small Details front. Measure and mark a perfect line-up: all buttonholes the same distance from front edge of dress, the same distance apart, and all parallel to the waist.

Suit buttonhole style to material and style of dress. Worked buttonholes are always suitable and are the best choice for a wash dress, since they are stronger. Bound buttonholes make an attractive finish for dressy rayons, wools and silks. Prevent Fraying If a dress fabric frays, take the precaution -before cutting to run four parallel rows of machine stitching, two on either side of buttonhole line, close to the cutting line. Then, when the hole is cut, the inner row of machine stitching on either side helps prevent fraying, while the outer row forms a guide for the width of the completed buttonhole.

If a material frays very badly, it is better to choose a style that does not call for buttons or buttonholes. Whether worked or bound, for a good effect, completed buttonholes should be narrow, that is, no wider than teenth of an inch from the cut line. To keep the end straight and flat, set stitches very close together when working round the buttonhole end. If your buttonholing technique is weak, remember blanket stitch, which is easier than conventional buttonhole stitch, and makes a satisfactory Buttonholes are often to blame when a homemade dress lacks the tailor-made look, says Margaret Smith, clothing specialist in the United States Department of Agriculture's Bureau of Human Nutrition and Home Economics. The following small make a big difference, Miss substitute if stitches are Smith advises home dress- worked close makers: ling machine together.

attachment A sewcan If horizontal buttonholes are also take over the buttonhole meant to march down center stitching, and is particularly front of a dress, mark the but- good for housedresses, chiltonhole lines starting one-six-dren's clothes and sturdy Sumteenth of an inch past center mer frocks. front. Beth El Hospital Junior League Plans Anniversary Party The 10th anniversary dinner dance of the Junior League of Beth El Hospital will be held tomorrow evening at Ben Maksik's Roadside. Mrs. Max H.

Stein is chairman of the event and Mrs. Sidney Zeichner is co-chairman. Members of the committee include Mrs. David Linder, Mrs. Moe Ulberg, Mrs.

Felix Stein, Mrs. Sidney Friedman, Mrs. Charles Feingold, Mrs. Frederick Spector, Mrs. Charles.

Storck, Mrs. Irwin Bleeth, Mrs. Isidore Feder, Mrs. Benjamin Rosenthal, Mrs. William Analik, Mrs.

Mildred Kurland, Mrs. Herbert Tulipan, Mrs. Herman Taller, Mrs. Oscar Goldberg, Mrs. Henry Morrison and Mrs.

David Rosenthal. Funds raised event will go to the building fund of the hospital. Women Engineers The Society of Women Engineers, Metropolitan New York Section, met on Monday at the St. Agnes Branch of the New York Public Library. Rug for Daughter When it comes to selecting that carpet for your daughter's room, take her with will give her a sense of responsibility and start her out on her career as a a he But the in It the even a a full length Redi-Made Drapery Panel a privately financed day nurseries in the city.

The board of managers is limited to 75 active members. At the bridge party the committee chairmen were so busy rushing from one place to' another it was hard to catch up with them. We did see the president, Mrs. Christopher D. Kevin, being as active as her busiest chairman.

Mrs. Kevin was wearing a black taffeta suit with a pink forget-me-not flowered chapeau. With this she wore a corsage of orchids. Mrs. Henry L.

Ughetta, general chairman, was attired in a navy blue shantung suit with a matching shiny straw hat topped with a white pompon. Her co-chairman was Mrs. Walter E. Trum who was attired in a toast-colored dressmaker suit trimmed with bronze beading on the lapels. With this she wore a brown shiny straw hat.

Among the other chairmen noted were Mrs. William G. O'Brien, who was chairman of special gifts and prizes, wearing a navy blue shantung suit with a pink straw hat; Mrs. Robert C. Rome, chairman of reception, in a blue suit and green felt bonnet; Mrs.

Joseph E. Murphy in a gray suit with a blue milan trimmed with white flowers; Mrs. James J. Dempsey in a black crepe frock and a blush pink off-the-face hat trimmed with deeper shaded flowers; Mrs. John I.

McNamara, chairman of awards, in navy blue with a straw bonnet trimmed with red velvet ribbon and veiling; Mrs. Thomas C. Harden, chairman; of Juniors, in a navy blue crepe and white chapeau, and Mrs. H. Carroll Wall, chairman of cards, in a black faille suit and flowered hat.

Mrs. Laurence G. Bodkin, who was chairman of table prizes, was unable to be present because of illness. a her a lan- will of to ABCs Foresight in Wiring When having wiring installed, tell the contractor what appliances you mean to purchase later. It will help him and save you money by getting the right connections at the outset for the tumbler dryer, for example, and other home helps which you will be buying weeks or months from now.

has just been introduced by Barret Fabrics, Inc. Hand printed on lovely antique satin with forest green and light green leaves, red and turquoise flowers on offwhite ground. In three yards, yards, yards- and is completely made up, ready to hang. Made from a 50-inch width, each panel has five French pleats- is sateen lined. If more than one panel is desired for each side of the window (four are shown in the photograph) the panels merely require tacking together.

About $39.50 per pair. The Nurse's Notebook His Own Bed By ANNE M. GOODRICH, R.N. (Prepared by the Visiting lyn as a service to friends and Even tiny babies need growth, development and health. the new baby have a bed of his in the household.

It is true that tiny babies like, and need to be cuddled and loved. They enjoy lying in the crook of their mother's arm, but their visit to mother's bed should be in the nature of relaxation and playtime and not a permanent place to sleep. A baby's bed may vary from the very fancy to the extremely simple makeshift and be equally comfortable and safe for him. While a baby under seven weeks old is unable to roll or move himself about too freely, using an adult bed without sides is inadvisable. If you do have occasion to leave a baby on a bed, be sure to lay him crosswise and not lengthwise.

If he should roll he will roll the length of the bed and not off the edge. Requirements Bassinettes and cribs available in many designs and price ranges. If you are buying la crib it is well to keep in mind that babies grow quickly and a small crib is poor economy. If you do not want to put a new baby in a full-size crib, his first bed may be a market basket, bureau drawer, crate or carton. The two requirements are firm surface on which to lie land a smooth inside surface free Nurse Association of Brookpatients of the organization.) physical comfort for their best It is therefore important that own right away after his arrival of protruding nails or splinters, A firm hair pillow may be used for baby's first mattress.

Be sure, however, not to use a feather or kapok-filled pillow with a soft surface which will give under the baby's weight and against which he could smother. If a hair pillow is not available a firm blanket folded several times and covered with a sheet will do nicely as a mattress. If a basket or a crate is to be used it may be lined with an old sheet, shower curtain or other washable material. Be sure that the lining is made with a draw string which will tie around the outside or have the material firmly sewn or tacked around the edges so that it cannot fall over the baby's head. It is important to have a firm, safe and non-tipping surface on which to put your bassinette or make-shift bed.

A table or adult bed will do nicely or you may put two chairs together facing each other. It is preferable to have the bed off the floor and out of draughts. Baby will be happy and comfortable in almost any safe make-shift bed provided it is his own. Engaged, She's Smitten Mary Haworth's Mail With a Movie Hero DEAR MARY HAWORTH -I am an engaged girl, 21, planning to be married this June. I am completely in love with my fiance, whom I have dated for some time; but during the past month or so my happiness has been clouded by an uncontrollable desire for a certain movie actor.

He has become an obsession with me. I can think of nothing else. I am sure this sounds ridiculous to you, as it does also to me. But I am positive it is something more than "hero worship," and I think you'd agree, if you knew me for a while. This is absolutely the first time anything of the kind has happened to Mary Haworth me, as I am a stable practical person, as a rule, not easily moved by things that set most girls a-flutter.

I find myself pipe-dreaming on the job (I work in an advertising agency), and this is most unusual. Generally I tend strictly to business. I've written a fan letter to the actor; never had I done such a thing before. I want a solution to the problem because I am afraid if it continues I'll start comparing my fiance Jack to the movie star, and expecting Jack to live up to the ideal that the star represents to me; and that, of course, is asking too much of any human being. I think I am actually in love with someone who doesn't exist.

Please tell me what you think. F. F. Afraid of Honeymoon DEAR F. suppose you are day dreamabout a honeymoon relationship with the movie star, wool gathering about his being your lover in one of his gallant screen roles.

There is neurotic significance to this kind of thing, and I interpret it as follows: Much as you wish to belong to a sex partner, you unconsciously shrink from the test of conjugal intimacy with the man you love, lest you be found frigid or unsatisfactory to the bridegroom, or unlovely in his sight. Although hardly aware, on the conscious level, of the anxiety caused by this inner conflict, you try to escape from it in fantasy. If the actor is an older man, your fixation on him may also refer to frustrated feelings about your father, and to a marked dependency bias, giving rise to a compulsive wish to attain a cherished "little girl" status in a romantic alliance. Low Self Esteem As to why this particular actor sticks in your mind, it is a reasonable guess that some role he played, something he said, some mannerism in a "characterization," clicked with a buried memory or idea of yours concerning a childhood idol; which later led to a dream, in which the actor took the part of the idol. in a fuzzy way.

Then whether or not you consciously recollected the dream, he seemed to "mean something" to you. And by the time you had sent the fan letter, you were on the hook; because it is a psychological axiom that "Emotion follows action." To solve the problem, don't lose sight of its center. It is not the actor, but your low self esteem, that threatens to spoil your chances of happiness with Jack. Well-balanced, comfortably self-accepting individuals don't want a big shot glamor-girl or glamor-man as partner in their love life. They want a pleasant person, much like themselves, with whom to share the plain bread of loyal companionship.

M. H..