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-Just Between UsTo Gain More Respect for Your Ideas, You Must Assert Yourself By NANCY MOTTRAM (Q.) Dear Nancy-I never get a chance to say what's on my mind. At home, I'm told what to do and when to do it, and there's no argument about it. It's the same with my friends. If they decide to do one thing and I want to do another, I always have a choice of tagging along or going by myself, because nothing I do or say is ever co considered important. I'm overruled on everything and instead of having the reputation of being easy to get along with, they think of me as a pushover.

I've taken it about as Nancy Mottram long as I can and I Zanini, want to do someJo- Nancy Mottram thing about it. Please help me, (A.) You've given in to stronger wills all along the line, and if you want to get your rights, you'll have to earn them. At home, the next time you're future is being decided upon without your being consulted, insist on sitting down with them and giving your side. If you have good ideas--and the determination to be heard, quietly but firmly--you'll be listened to. A lot of words with no meaning or purpose won't win the respect of your family, but well thought out discussions will.

You have to prove a point to win it, and remember that in your relations with your friends. If you stick to your honest beliefs and gain confidence in yourself by making up your mind and claiming your right to be heard along with everyone else, you'll come into your own. (Q.) Dear Nancy-A friend I of mine likes to borrow my records and costume jewelry and even clothes at times, and I lend them without a thought. But -whenever I suggest borrowing something of hers, she thinks up all kinds of excuses and, while they might be true some of the time, it seems too much of a coincidence that I'm refused every time. Yet, she still feels free to borrow from.

me. I've thought about saying no, but she might get angry, if I suddenly start refusing. What do you think I should do? (A.) You have a as much cause to be angry now as she would, if you began to play her game. Borrowing can often lead to rifts in friendship, and you'd be doing the right thing by stopping the system between you and your friend. If she does try to make an issue of it.

come right out and tell her why. Otherwise, just tactfully refuse her, and after a while, she may see the point. (Q.) Dear Nancy--A girl who was just elected president of a club in our home town has let it to her head. She used to has really let it go to go around with another aren't members, but us when we see her. tell us what to do.

the friendship or act her head. She used to girl and myself, who now, she actually snubs I wonder if you could Should we try to keep up the same way? (A.) Perhaps someday, when she's no longer "president," she'll realize how foolishly she acted, and will regret having lost your friendship. Her attitude may give you the key to her character, and, you might not care about being close chums with her after you've thought it over. Continue to speak to her when you meet for a while, but if she shows no signs of forgetting her importance, leave her strictly alone. Spend your time with those who really deserve the name of friend.

Nancy can help with all your teen-age problems. Write her in care of this newspaper. BOOKS OF THE DAY Birthday By Stella FRIDAY, AUG. 27-Born to- day, you are one of the industrious workers of the world. Given a task to do, you will plough through it with energy and dispatch and then look up for more.

You have an excellent memory and a tremendous fund of energy upon which you can call at very short notice. Just make sure you don't count too heavily at times upon this gift and wait until the last moment to start a job. You men and women may differ quite widely in the expression of basic characterrevo-listics, you women putting as much energy into a social event as a man would in some gigantic business enterprise. This tendency in the fair sex can be overdone, for it seems a pity to waste a good, alert brain on social flippancies, when might be used for something much more significant. At least, combine your efforts with some charitable or benevolent campaign.

To find what the stars have in store for tomorrow, select your birthday star and read the correspnding paragraph. Let your birthday star be your daily guide. Saturday, Aug: 28 VIRGO (Aug. 24-Sept. Intuitive hunches can be of great value LIBRA (Sept.

23-Oct. 23) -Design and decoration are well favored. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) --Another opportunity day.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 22) -Romance CAPRICORN is very 1 Dec good. 23-Jan. 20) -Exterior influences may not appear beneficial as recently.

AQUARIUS (Jun. 21 Feb. 19) -Average affairs proceed normally, PISCES (Feb. 20-March 21) -Another 80-80 day, ARIES (March 22-April 20)-An averday. TAURUS (April 21-May 21) ---A day when psychic your in their intuitions import.

appear almost GEMINI (May 22-June 22) Everyhaving to do with building appears to be especially active. CANCER (June 23-July 23)-Some improvement over vesterday is indicated. LEO (July 24-Aus. 23) -Inspiration is running high today. Huntington Beach Set for Water Carnival Huntington Beach, Aug.

27- The Huntington Community Beach Association, comprised of many Brooklynites who have Summer nomes in this section, will hold its annual water sports during the coming weekend and the annual regatta during Labor Day weekend. Combined with the water sports will be land sporting events on the beach starting tomorrow at 2:30. Folks Over 28 Make Friends Dance Lester FRIENDSHIP CLUB Branch of Brons Friendship Club Bedford and Avenue BU. 7-0019 CORTELYOU YOU CLUBHOUSE Fri. (80c), Sat.

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announces the ment of her daughter, Anne Kenney, to E. B. of Pensacola, Fla. The ding will take place Jan. the Church of Our Lady of petual Help.

Mr. and Mrs. Walter DeGroat of 705 Carroll St. entertained at a party on Aug. 15 in honor of their son Walter, who celebrated his seventh birthdav.I 1 Among the guests DeGroat, were, and his his 5th grandmother, Mrs.

Walter Debrother, Jack engage- Groat Sr. Miss Mainbocher Does New Scout Uniforms New uniforms for the Girl Scouts were to be shown today during a buffet luncheon for the fashion press in the garden of Essex House, Central Park South. The uniforms. for all branches of the service, have been designed by Mainbocher. Rated the country's most expensive designer, Mainbocher also did the uniforms for the Waves during the war.

Births Announced Mr. and Mrs. Warren M. Brown of 100 Marine Ave. announce the birth of their third daughter, Mary Frances Brown, on Sunday at the Bay Ridge Sanitarium.

Mrs. Brown is the former Alice May McLoughlin of Philadelphia. Mr. and Mrs. Morton D.

Handler of 137 Sullivan Place announce the birth of a daughter, Roberta Lynn Handler, on Aug. 23 at the Jewish Hospital of Brooklyn. Mrs. Handler is the June Moss Brooklyn. Her father is Maximilian Moss, vice president of the Board of Education of New York City.

The Handlers also nave a son, Peter Handler. Ruth Hopewell Vix's Marriage Announced Mr.and Mrs. William A. Vix of Hempstead announce the marriage of their daughter, Miss Ruth Hopewell Vix, to Cortlandt Richard Tisch, son Mr. Mrs.

Charles Tischl, Jr. of Garden City, on Aug. 14 at the Methodist Church, Niles, Mich. The bride was a graduate of Garden City High School. Mr.

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Ray Pisano of i4 Carlton Ave. announces the forthcomling marriage of her daughter, Miss Christine Pisano, to Frank Rutigliano, son of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Rutigliano of 195 Steuben on Sunday at 6 p.m. at Sacred Heart Church.

The Rev. C. Otto Collini will officiate. A reception will f61- low at Lenruth Hall. The bride will be given in marriage by Nicholas Frangiosa.

Miss Pisano will be attended by Miss Carmela Giovannelli as maid of honor, and Miss Camile Pisano, her sister. and Miss Marie Rutigliano of Brooklyn as bridesmaids. Patsy De Vito will be best man and John and George Rutigliano of Brooklyn will usher. The couple will honeymoon lat Lake George, N. after which they will reside at 82 Ryerson St.

The bride-to-be 1s a graduate of Girls Commercial High School. She is employed by the Mergenthaler Linotype Company of Brooklyn. Mr. Rutigliano is a graduate of Haaren High School. He served three years in the Army Air Forces as an specialist.

A staff sergeant gunner on B-29s from bases on Saipan, he received the Distinguished Flying Cross and the Air Medal with four Oak Leaf Clusters. He is attending night courses at Pratt Institute. During day he is employed as a draftsman by Franque A. Dickens, marine engineer of Brooklyn. "GOING PLACE?" PHONE MA.

4-6200 FOR IDEAS 9 A.M.-5 P.M. CHOICE HERRING FILLETS CREAMED HERRING FILLETS CREAMED by A VITA COLD PLACE VITA BRAND 909 IN DELICIOUS SOUR CREAM SAUCE PRESERVED WRITE FOR SERVE DAINTIES THem FREE VITA FOOD PRODUCTS, 654 Greenwich Street, BOOK OF New York 14, N. Y. 100 RECIPES Catherine M. Zanini Zanini-Schnepf Miss Catherine Mary Zanini, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. seph C. Zanini of 135-16 95th Ozone Park. will be married to George F. Schnepf, of Mr.

and Mrs. George Schnepf of 6113 Madison Ridgewood, Nativity of Blessed Virgin tomorrow at Church of the the Mary, Ozone Park. The Rev. John' Joy will officiate. A reception will be held at the Franklin Hotel, Jamaica.

The bride will be given in marriage by her father. Mrs. Mary Camuto of Ozone Park will attend as matron of honor. The bridesmaids will include Mrs. Alice Haynes of Ridgewood, and the Misses Peggy Rothman of Astoria and Marie Sicari of Ozone Park.

The best man will be Anthony Camuto of Ozone Park. George Haynes Ridgewood, Louis DeNigris of the Bronx and Thomas McGarry of Brooklyn will usher. The prospective bride received her education at St. School. Michael's Commercial High She is a member of the Carroll Club, Manhattan, and the Ferrini League.

Mr. Schnepf was educated at Grover Cleveland High School and 1s attending St. John's University. He served over four years in the navy during the war. Food Continued from Preceding Page home-canned products.

Meat, fish, poultry and non-acid vegetables, such as corn, peas, green and yellow beans, squash, carrots and the like, are likely to contain this not canned under pressure according to standard directions. Commercially canned foods have been properly canned. Spoilage may occur, however, due to improper storage. Cans that bulge, that are swollen or leaking should never be nor used. Store canned foods in a cool, dry place.

Keep Under Refrigeration Much spoilage may start in the kitchen. Prompt refrigeration is important. Foods that spoil quickly are eggs, milk, meat, fish and poultry and dishes made with these foods, such as salads, custards, ground meat, fish or poultry mixtures used in sandwich fillings, are particularly perishable. Personal cleanliness while handling food is also important. It is not to cross pork off the in Sumnecessary, mer.

necessary, however, that pork' be well done, Summer or Winter. If the meat shows pink after cooking it not well enough done. Smoked meats may need cooking. Read labels or ask the meat man whether or not the meat ready to eat or should have additional cooking after the smoking. Avoid Cream Fillings When packing a picnic lunch remember to keep all foods in the refrigerator until the very last minute.

They should be well chilled and packed, so that they will not spoil until meal time. Any foods such as custards, cream fillings, potato salad and similar items, are best left out of the picnic basket unless you have some means to refrigerate them until they are to be used. Vacuum jugs and small portable refrigerators are available. A box or carton, well lined with heavy paper (several layers of newspaper, for example) may substitute for short periods. Ice may be included, or the well chilled items in their containers (aiso well chilled) may be heavily wrapped.

Play safe, avoid waste and keep healthy by caring properly for your food. Miss Jean F. Kaye's Marriage Announced Memoirs of Child Education Pioneer LEARN FROM CHILDREN, by Pratt. (Simon, Shuster). By LESTER D.

CROW Chairman Department of Education, Brooklyn College The author of "I Learn From Children" is known throughout the country as a woman who has devoted her life to the education of young people. Her enthusiasm, courage, love for children and adventuresome spirit reflect themselves in her early revolt from traditional teaching methods and her founding and administration of the now famous City and Country School. The cumulation of long life of service can be found in this book, written between her 80th and 81st birthdays, as she says in the foreword, "to tell the story of my own adventure in the teaching of children, an adventure which has absorbed me during an entire lifetime." Since 1901, when Miss Pratt resigned from the Manual Training Shop of the Philadelphia Normal School. she devoted her life to the study of children and to the providing educational experiences that would seem to make learning an active, interesting adventure for them. This book, written in a charmingly infor-1 mal style, recounts the story of the practical development of BREAKFAST SERENADE 4670 SIZES, Happy days Wear this gay dress, win breakfast.

Pattern Miss Jean F. Kaye, daughter frock to rejoice of Mrs. Isidor D. Kaye of 527 sew design! Albany was married on This pattern, Sunday to Fred P. Roslyn, to sew, is of Mr.

and Mrs. Samuel Roslyn cludes complete of 452 New Lots at Adler's. structions. The bride's grandparents, Mr. Pattern 4670 and Mrs.

Joseph Kreisman of 12, 14, 16, 18, Brooklyn, gave their grand- takes 4 yards daughter in marriage. Mrs. Mil- Send 25c in ford Fisch and Mrs. Bernard tern to the Grishman attended their niece. Pattern The best man was the bride- Manhattan groom's brother, Rubin Roslyn.

plainly name, Warren S. Kaye ushered. zone, size and the author's educational phillosophy this took root with the co-operation of other enthusiasts through the curriculum, and teaching and learning techniques her City and Country School in New York. Sound Ideas Many sound ideas and principles of education are discussed in the book. To the reader in 1948, however, some of the facts set down as new and lutionary 'no longer are points of educational controversy.

Too many attempts were made and still are to steer into set patterns the spirit of inquiry or spontaneous interest altogether. However. school people who have been strug. gling to find a middle course between complete repression on the part of children and uncontrolled expression may raise certain questions. It may be questioned whether some of the practices advocated by the author with small groups of children taught by teachers who themselves brought the pioneer spirit to their work would be equally desirable with the larger groups in our public schools.

Educators recognize that learning is an active process and that spirit of interest in and knowledge about the environment an Important phase of edu- cation. Controlled Expression Experience curriculums, project methods and similar techniques are commendable. Just as Important is the development of controlled expression, respect for authority, mastery of such fundamental skills as proficiency with numbers and reading comprehension. The traditional school probably overemphasized the three R's. The progressive school may underemphasize fund a mental skills and attitudes of personal responsibility.

The author has pioneered in pointing the way to a greater understanding of children and a more psychological approach of working with them. However, in the opinion of some parents and schoolmen, we are caught between the old and the new. We have not yet found the "ideal" in educational guidance. We can learn from children. We have learned from children but there is much that children need to learn from well-trained older people.

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