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Girl Lingers in Car 'Mary Haworth's Mail With Beau After Dates DEAR MARY HAWORTH: This is the only time I have ever asked an outsider's advice in my family affairs. You see, my 20-year-old daughter, Elly, threatens to leave home in the wake of a dispute. When Elly has a date and the boy brings her home, they sit out front in a parked car for hours, instead of coming indoors. I say they should come into the living room to visit; not that I think they are misbehaving in the car, but because of conventions and busybody neighbors. Now Elly intends to leave -because I embarrassed her, and her boy friend will never speak to 1 her again, she says.

Was I right? Or was I wrong? If wrong, Mary Haworth how can I make amends? I do want to be a good, understanding mother; and I don't want people to say ugly things about her. G. N. Careless Course Mary Haworth DEAR G. Actually Elly is making a mistake in treating herself so carelesslylingering for hours in a parked car in front of the house, after her date of the evening returns her there.

She is marking herself down in the boy's estimation, and giving him a vaguely shabby feeling about himself in relation to her, if she lets this happen as the usual thing. A various stream of young social life flows through my home at present, and I get deal of instruction from this contact with Weinstein--Green Mr. and Mrs. Max Weinstein of East Flatbush and Swan Lake, N. announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Shirley Rochelle Weinstein, to Herbert Bernard Green, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Isidor Green of Crown Heights. Mr. Green served in the medical corps during World War II and is a graduate of Adelphi College. The wedding will take place March 27.

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Print name, address with zone, style number land size. GOT IT FOR 54- BUICKS THE BIG CHANGE YOUVE BEEN HOPING FOR! SEE YOUR BUICK DEALER TODAY Children's Play Rip Van Winkle, produced How Deal With the Subject of Death? By BEULAH FRANCE, R.N. (Q.) Our Mothers' Club liked your advice about how to deal with death when a child is only two and one-half years old. At that age children never worry much. They forget easily.

But what of older children? How can death best be explained to them? Mrs. President. (A.) When I've spoken before clubs on this subject the meetings generally lasted at least two full hours and very seldom has a member of the audience left before the session was over. So you'll readily (that in 300 words I possibly discuss this most important question. la "Older children" is too vague term, too.

It might include those from three years old to, and through, the 'teens. There ace also all types of "older children." Some sensitive suffer frightfully from Sothe) (death of scars a may loved be one. left unless Lifesuch youngsters get good guidance at that time. There are, however, children whom I know who have lived through such horrors overseas seelthat' their attitude toward DESIGNING WOMAN -By Elizabeth Hillyer- 0. Pat.

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Y. views of home furnishings for Spring. After the last of the great carved and curlicued beds of the post-War Between the States era, headboards grew lower and smaller until: some beds had none at all, and some haven't. But there is a decided interest in head-. boards the present market showings, especially in the new spindle-back types that are open and light in appearlance, and in bookshelf headboards, which improve design.

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Kay I. Johnstone Will Be Married Mr. and Mrs. James Johnstone of 1094 New York Ave. announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Kay I.

Johnstone, to Richard A. 01- sen, son of Mr. and Mrs. A. Frederick Olsen of 1978 E.

23d Street. Miss Johnstone is a gradulate of Erasmus Hall High School and Drakes Business School and is employed by the New York Central Railroad Compangisen. a graduate of James Madison High School, attended Brooklyn College, He is with the United States Air Force as an instructor at Keesler Air Force Base, Mississippi. Perfume Lingers On A man remembers a woman's perfume long after he has forI gotten the color of her hat, say 'the experts. You'll be sure of your BROOKLYN EAGLE if you have it home-delivered.

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I will pay my Eagle carrier boy 35c per week for daily and Sunday service, SIGNATUREADDRESS- PHONE- BROOKLYN EAGLE, JAN. 8, 1954 would, I feel very stock the members of most Mothers' Clubs. I think mothers must remember, when war veterans return, that too were taught to consider enemy deaths an accomplished achievement. There are parents who say: "Death, brings hereafter." the ender, oddly There enough, a registered nurse, have been begged by "unbelievers" to pray a dead or dying child. I've seen fathers and mothers fall, weeping, to their knees and ask a God whose existence they had denied to save their sick or injured boy or girl.

If in a Mothers' Club there are those who have no faith in a hereafter, words would be wasted on advice about introducing youngsters to death. If your club wants to know where to find reading matter about explaining death to children I will gladly send you a list of helpful reference reading, provided a stamped, addressed envelope is inclosed. This offer is open to all other readers, too. Teen Topics Stick to Courtesy Titles Friends If in Doubt Dear Sally: I am a friendly with the parents of they call each other by first to call them by their names, The question of first naming many places of business, even pected to call his fellowsometimes encourage students to first-name the younger instructors. As a rule, however, teenagers shouldn't call social acquaintances more than ten years their seniors by first namesunless the adults ask them to.

If a grown-up makes the request, it naturally would be rude to refuse. Ask Parents The parent child relationship adds another factor. In your case, H. S. I'd advise talking the matter over with your own mother and father.

Would they like to have your pal call them by their first names? If you first name the other couple, their son would, of course, call your parents "John" and "Mary" or whatever. See what your parents think. A half-way "solution might be to call the man by his first IRON-ON DESIGNS IN THREE COLORS IRON- ON DESIGNS IN 3 COLORS By SALLY 7130 bay Alice Brooks Iron-on Peacocks Ocean green, bright blue and brown all combined in a vivid, dramatic color scheme! No embroidery, no applique, no sewing. In minutes, frame them for pictures--decorate guest towels, dresser and chair-sets, tablecloths and place mats. They're gift-worthy! Iron on! Washable! Colorful! 7130 has 6 iron-on designs; two four inches.

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Box 163, Old Chelsea New York 11, N. Y. Print name, address, zone and pattern number. Send 20 cents more in coins for your copy of our Alice Brooks Needlework Catalogue -it's the best ever! young modern adults--approximate ages 19 to 25. And I've been told of instances when nicely seasoned young men have chided nice naive girls for loitering in the car, for a smoke or a chat, after reaching their own doorstep in the night hours.

Of course all' young men aren't so fairminded, or so amiably protective in their dating behavior. Some Indeed may lack the formative training, the ingrained good taste and sense of courtesy, that provide right guidance in unsupervised situations. And lacking that inner compass, they may follow a girl's lead, in giving a wrong impression, when the girl herself doesn't know better. Probably Elly's mistake is along this line. If you would be a good understanding mother, try to find out why Elly shrinks from bringing her beau indoors; and try to overcome obstacles to spontaneous self-respecting hospitality on her part.

Is the house a pleasant place? Or is it dinky, dismal and unkempt? Does it afford any oasis of appropriate privacy, where a courting couple might converse, hold hands, maybe trade a kiss, without the family taking it all in? Is, it an atmosphere in which young people might raid the icebox, fix a hot drink, 1 maybe scramble some eggs, play music in the late evening, without self- consciousness? And without fear of disturbing their elders? Right answers to these questions would make a big difference in Elly's actions, I am sure. M. H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or personal interview. Write her in care of the Brooklyn Eagle, Brooklyn 1, N.

Miss Sarah Lucerie, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Jack Lucerie, of 124 Prospect Woodmere, will be wed to Richard Cascardi of North Lawrence tomorrow, 3:30 p.m., at St. Joachim's Church, Cedarhurst. The reception will be held at 7 p.m, at the Casa Seville, Franklin Square, Blood is the "Gift of Life." Arto help someone in need torange, calling your local Brooklyn Red Cross Chapter at MAin 4-6001.

by Playmart Children's Theater opens tomorrow at the Carl Fischer Concert Hall, 165 W. 57th Manhattan, and will be dramatized each Saturday at 1 p.m. and 2:45 p.m. and Sundays at 2:45 p.m. through January and February.

Tickets are priced at $1.20 and 75 cents and may be reserved by calling PLaza 3-0746 or writing Plasmart Productions, 52 W. 58th Manhattan. Card Party The Brooklyn Ladies Auxiliary of the Home of Old Israel, 70 Jefferson will hold a card party at the institution on Sunday at 7 p.m. The proceeds will be donated to the home. Mrs.

Kate Samet is ident. Wins Uniform boy 17. My parents are very one of my closest friends and names. Is it proper for me too? H. S.

G. adults is a ticklish one. In the youngest employe is exTom or Dick or Harry. Schools ITS BEST FOR TEENAGERS NOT TO CALL OLDSTERS BY ok THEIR FIRST DAD NAMES UNLESS THEY REQUEST IT name and keep the title for the Mrs. This is customary if the man and or play together frequently." In any case, the final decision lies with your oldsters, Brother.

Sound the situation out but, if you're in doubt, stick to the courtesy titles. Miss Rita M. Quinn's Marriage Announced Mr. and Mrs. John M.

Quinn of Woodside announce the marriage of their daughter, Miss Rita M. Quinn, to John P. Drew, son of Mrs. Harry Drew of Woodside and the late Mr. Drew, at a solemn nuptial mass by Monsignor Peter W.

Fox, pastor of the Blessed Virgin Mary Help of Christians, Winfield, where the wedding took place. The couple received the Papal blessing at the mass. A reception followed at the Towers Hotel. The bride wore a princess gown of Chantilly lace over ivory satin with a train of lace and tulle. Her veil was held in place by a crown of orange blossoms.

She carried a missal with a marker of orchids and lilies of the valley. The maid of honor was her sister-in-law, Mrs. John W. Quinn of North Merrick. Bridesmaids were the Misses Irene Stoekamp of Flushing, Ann B.

Carroll of Harrison, N. cousin of the bride, and Peg Muller and Rosemary Bouchard of Manhattan. Garret Lane. of Woodside was best man and the ushers were Dr. Paul Dowdell Manhattan, Michael Touhill of Elmhurst, Carroll Murphy of Yonkers and John M.

Quinn brother of the bride. Mrs. Drew is an alumna of St. John's Hospital School of Nursing, Long Island City. She received B.S.

and M.S. grees from Columbia sity and is a member of the faculty of Roosevelt Hospital School Nursing. She served in the Navy Nurse Corps, her last assignment was the hospital ship Sanctuary during World War II. Mr. Drew was graduated from New York University and also the Law School of New York University.

He is associated with the law firm of O'Brien, Driscoll, Raftery Rosenbloom, Manhattan. After a honeymoon cruise to Nassau, the couple will reside in Harrison, N. Y. Rochele Goldstein, 857 New Lots has been chosen a national winner of a Miss Curity nurse's uniform in a first-aid contest conducted by Bauer Black, Chicago manufacturers of first-aid supplies and surgical dressings. WHY CARRY A LOAD OF CASHT See the Man from Manhattan.

Pay all your bills by cheek with a Special Checking Account at BANK OF THE MANHATTAN COMPANY. FEDERAL Miss Edith Sass, Dr. Wasserman to Wed Mr. and Mrs. Henry Sass of 8617 Avenue announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Edith Sass, to Dr.

Sidney Wasserman, son of Mr. and Mrs. Theodore Wasserman of 58 Lewis Ave. Miss Sass is a senior at Brooklyn College. She is affiliated with Iota Alpha Pi sorority.

Dr. Wasserman is a graduate of Western Reserve University in Cleveland, where he obtained of Science and Doctorachel Dental Science degrees. He has served in the United States Coast Guard and Public Health Service. The couple will be married in the Spring. Son Born Mr.

and Mrs. Leon Zbikowski of 107-25 131st Richmond Hill, announce the birth of a son, Leon Anthony Zbikowski, on Dec. 29 at Bay Ridge Hospital. Mr. and Mrs.

Zbikowski have one other child, a daughter, named Susan. Installation The Benevolent Society for Retarded Children, will meet this evening at Adelphi Hall, 74 5th Manhattan. Officers will be installed. NOTICES File No. 5735-1953 THE PEOPLE OF THE STATE OF NEW YORK by the grace of God ROADSIDE independent.

HINCKEN, also To CORT known as CORT R. HINCKEN, and MARY ELIZABETH HINCKEN: and to ISAAC N. PYLE, SARAH PYLE MARTIN and ARTHUR PETERS. and any and all unknown persons whose names or parts of whose names whose place or places of residence are unknown, after diligent inquiry be ascertained, distributees, heirs-at-law and next of kin of ELSIE O. HINCKEN, of PYLE said ISAAC N.

SARAH MARTIN and ARTHUR PETERS and if any of the said digheirs-at-law or next of kin of ELSIE O. HINCKEN, deceased. of ISAAC N. PYLE. SARAH MARTIN and ARTHUR PETERS be dead, their legal representatives, their husbands or wives, if distributes and successors in interest whose names places of residence and post-office addresses are unknown: SEND GREETING WHEREAS.

KEITH W. SHERMAN, who resides at 118 Eighth Avenue, Brooklyn, New York, has presented a petition praying for a decree that a certain instrument in writing. relating to real and personal property, duly proved as the Last Will and Testament of ELSIE O. HINCKEN, lately residing at No. 272 Berkeley Place, in the Borough of Brooklyn, City of of you are to show cause NOW.

THEREFORE, you and each before County our of Kings, Surrogate's to be Court held of in the Court Room at the Hail of Records. in the County of Kings, on 11th day of February, 1954, at 9:30 o'clock in the forenoon, why such should not be made. IN TESTIMONY WHEREOF. we have caused the Seal of our said Surrogate's Court to be hereunto affixed. (Seal) WITNESS.

Hon. E. IVAN RUBENSTEIN, Surrogate of our said County, at the Borough of Brooklyn. in the said County, the 31st day of December, 1953. AARON L.

JACOBY, Clerk of the Surrogate's Court. ja8-4t 1 File No. THE PEOPLE OF THE STATE OF NEW YORK. BY GRACE OF To: Emilio Camilleri, individually GOD FREE AND INDEPENDENT. and as Trustee under the Will of Michael Camilleri: Frank Camilleri.

individually and as Executor under the Will of Michael Camilleri: Marie Camilleri, Josephine Camilleri, Joseph Camilleri. Josephine Donato. Lena Sabrino, Ida Moziello, Frank Cannizzaro. Nicholas Pampalone. Charles Pampalone.

Frances Gagliardi. Tillie Castaldo, Giuseppe Camilleri, Roseanne Camilleri, Arlene Camilleri. Rosemarie Camilleri and Michael Camilleri; SEND GREETING: WHEREAS. JOSEPH CAMILLERI who resides at No. 413 Gravesend Neck Road.

in the Borough of Brookyn, City of New York, has presented his Account as Co-Execu-1 Its very name tells you to expect wonderful things for your skin lanolin Pluto LIQUID A gently penetrating golden liquid that does wonders for your skin. The secret? Lanolin Plus--with its precious esters and cholesterols -is so like the natural oils of your own skin, only $100 plus tax CONSOLIDATED COSMETICS, INC. 30 WEST HUBBARD STREET CHICAGO 10, ILLINOIS LEGAL NOTICES tor of the Will of Michael Camilleri, deceased, lately residing at No. 2346 Ocean Parkway, in the Borough of Brooklyn, County of Kings, City and State of New York. and a petition praying that his account may be judicially settled.

Now. therefore. you and each of you are hereby cited to show cause before our Surrogate's Court of the County of Kings. on the 25th day of January, 1954, at 9:30 o'clock in the forenoon, why such settlement should not be had. In Testimony Whereof, we have caused the Seal of our said Surrogate's Court to be hereunto affixed.

(Seal) Witness, Hon. E. IVAN RUBENSTEIN, Surrogate of our said County, at the Borough of Brooklyn, in the said County, the 15th day of December. AARON L. JACOBY, Clerk of the Surrogate's Court.

de18-4t File No. 3230 -1950 THE PEOPLE OF THE STATE OF NEW YORK by the Grace of God, Free and Independent. To MIRIAM PERLYSKY JUDITH PERLYSKY DILLER: ELLIOT PERLYSKY, living, and if dead. his widow. heirs at law, next of kin, distributeen, executors, administrators, devisees and all other persons at law, succeeding next of to kin his or interest distribu- as tees of Osher Selig Perlysky, deceased.

whose names and places of residence are unknown and cannot be ascertained with due diligence, and any and all unknown persons who may be necessary and proper parties to this proceeding A8 tributes of Osher Selig Perlysky, deceased: LAWRENCE PERLYSKY. if living. and if dead, his widow. if any, heirs at law, next of kin, distributees, executors, all other administrators. devisees and persons succeding next to his interest as distributes heirs at of kin or of Osher Selig Perlysky.

deceased. whose names and places of residence are unknown and cannot be ascertained with due diligence, and any and all unknown persons who may be necessary proper to this proceeding as distributees of Osher Sells Perlyaky, deceased: SENT GREETING: Whereas, GABRIEL PERLYSKY. who resides at No. 250 Crown Street, in the Borough of Brooklyn, City of New York. has presented his Account as Administrator of the estate of Osher Sellg Perlysky, deceased, lately residing at No.

438 Dahill Road. in the Borough of Brooklyn, County of Kings, City and State of New York, and petition praying that his account may be judicially settled Now. therefore, you and each of you are hereby cited to show cause before our Surrogate's Court of County of Kings, to be held in the Court Room at the Hall of Records in the County of Kings, on the 16th dav of February, 1954. at 9:30 o'clock in the forenoon, why such settlement should not be had. In Testimony Whereof.

we have caused the Seal of our said LEGAL NOTICES Surrogate's Court to be hereunto affixed. (Seal) Witness, Hon. E. Ivan Rubenstein, Surrogate of our said the Borough of Brooklyn, in the said County, 29th day of December, 1953. AARON L.

JACOBY. Clerk of the Surrogate's Court. ja8-4t File No. 4557-1953 SUPPLEMENTAL CITATION THE PEOPLE OF THE STATE OF NEW YORK by the grace of God free and independent. To JUAN ARAUJO DIAZ, Zaballos 63.

Rosario, Santa Fe, Argentina: MARIA UJO DIAZ. Aldea a de San Nicola, Canary Islands: YSABEL ARAUJO DIAZ Aldea de San Nicola, Canary Islands; SEND GREETING: WHEREAS. LEON B. GINSBURG. who resides at 600 West 111th Street, New York, N.

has presented petition praying for a decree that certair instrument in writing. relating to real and personal property. be duly proved as the Last Will and Testament of FRANK ARAUJO. lately residing at No. 194 Fulton Street.

in the Borough of Brooklyn, City of New York. NOW THEREFORE, you and each of you are hereby cited to show cause before our Surrogate's Court of the County of Kings, to be held in The Court Room at the Hall of Records, in the County of Kings, on the day of March, 1954, at 9:30 o'clock the forenoon, why such decree shou'd not be made, IN TESTIMONY WHEREOF. have caused the Seal of our said Surrogate's Court to be affixed. (Seal) Hon. E.

RUBENSTEIN, of our said County, at the 1- ough of Brooklyn, in the said County the 28th day of December, 1953. AARON L. JACO3Y. Clerk of the Surrogate's Court. Ja8-4t Fri.

SUPREME COURT. KINGS COUNTY SAVINGS AND LOAN ASSOCIATION, Plaintiff. Against CECIL LACHMAN and others, Defendants Pursuant to, judgment herein entered. the undersigned Referee. will public auction by Joseph Rosenblum, Auctioneer at Room Municipal Building, Joralemon Street, Brooklyn, N.

Y. on the 2nd February, 1954 at 12:00 o'clock noon the premises directed to be sold described 88 follows: ALL that lot of land in Kings County, New York with the improvements thereon. situate on the westerly side of Pine Street. 158 feet 6 Inches southerly from the southwesterly corner of Blake Avenue and Pine Street, being 20 feet vide. front and rear.

with a form depth of 100 feet on each side, Subject to party wall and ment of record. Refer to the judgment for 8 more complete description. MICHAEL J. McGRATH, Referee. Burke.

Green Groh, Attorneys for Plaintiff, 161-10 Jamaica Avenue, Jamaica, N. Y. Ja8-6t FTh.