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i BROOKLYN EAGLE, THUR, JAN. 28, 1954 13 CD omg Mauuodlid Wlail Lonely Woman Says Men Don't Like Her Cdtton Prints Set Sail What foolishly agreed to pose for a picture, listen to tiM the subject of your face, etc. madly reckless and dangerous DEAR MARY HAWORTH I am a woman past the dating age, who was an unpopular gusher when young, then a silent sad sack nd now a silent old sack. Now I still, gentlewoman, -helpless and friend less, It seems, to try to follow thinking, which is obscurely the cause. You might pay for venturing an hour's companionship such a pickup.

overtures might be aimless to he consciously knew. Perhaps music, pursue It would be The man's start, so far as namely you. defenseless Mary Haworth r- for you, a less more or their line of twisted, whatever with your life with even a matter of fellow-sufferer, as he is, a bearing. But happy sense of to bitterness, erupt in violence in of seeing you as a sainted sort afflicted with loneliness trangely, look young despite my years, but the point Is, men have never liked me. But odd thing is that I walk absently along a crowded street, going my lonely way, strange men me impulsively.

One man offered me several hundred dollars if I would pose for a picture. Another begged me to come listen to him play the piano. Another told me violently, this on crowded Broadway, that he must have my face! Usually I brush off 'these strangers, loneliness proclaimed by your whole face to face in a private place, his identity with you might change and his grievances against life toward a supposed intimate. Thus you might find yourself dealing with a temporary maniac and this is the risk to avoid. Of one thing you may be sure, these men haven't singled you, only out of the passing throng.

They try their luck with others, too, no doubt, and, of course, they would concen trate on solitary women, preferably the sort thinking they are misfits like me, feeling pity 'but no desire to know them. I eat alone, go to church alone, am lost in the city crowds alone and get pushed around in the subway alone. What do you think I should do? F. 1). Beware of Strangers DEAR F.

D. You must be very lonely and almost entirely at a loss for conversation, nobody to confide in, to even consider any exchange with these strange characters who who don't seem to have much fight in them. you o'ught to tackle your deep of loneliness with a psychiatric who may be found at the nearest Agency, or, on the advisory the big churches in your town. kind of woman whom men might approach you with outlandish suggestions on crowded Broadway. Judging by the simple audacity of their requests, the men whose propositions you -describe were either sickminded or criminally inclined when they accosted you.

The realistic assumption, until disproved, is that they hoped to lura you into pathological vice, had you once you learned to think well M. H. Haworth counsels through her by mail or personal interview. Brooklyn Eagle, Brooklyn 1, N. Y.

Society LeRoy B. Tilden Wed Miss Ayres Mr. and Mrs. Georgt Remington Ayres of Mamaroneck, K. announca tha engagement of their daughter, Miss Shirley NAMM LOESER'S RESORT COLLECTION has cotton bouquet of prints in all colors and varieties.

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Teen Topics Candlelight Take Tots Child Care Grandparents Deserted by Boy's Silly Manner Due To Self-Consciousness By SALLY In my opinion, You are the By RUTH O. DAVIS Society Editor son of the Rev. and Mrs. Paul ings, directed by Charles Laughton, with whom she played in "Don Juan in Hell A reception, at which Miss Morehead will be guest of honor, will be held immediately after the performance in the Forsythia Room of tha Hotel Granada. Members of the Benefit Com mittee are Mrs.

John B. Mad den, Mrs. Henry Jeffrey and Mrs. unaries Peitz, all of whom are members of the associa tion's board of rlirectors; Mrs. John Fairfield Thompson and Mjss Bertha M.

Heck. Women Writers To Address Members At A. A. U. W.

Luncheon Threa outstanding women writers in contemporary life will address tha American As sociation of University Women on "The Highlights and Hurdles of Their Literary Careers" at the annual A. A. U. W. lunch eon on Saturday at the -Hotel McAlpin, Manhattan, at 12:30 p.m.

Novelist and short-story (writer Fanny Hurst, fiction and nnn.fi-t inn writer non-fiction writer Mari Sandoz, and the poet and critic, Louise Bogan, will be the speakers. Professor Margaret M. Bry ant, Department of English Rrooklyn College, is chairman the luncheon. Dolores Flynn's Betrothal Announced Mr. and Mrs.

Leo Flynn of 416 40th St. ha v.e announced the engagement of their daughter, Miss Dolores Flynn, to Neil Palomba, son of Mr. and Mrs. Luciano Palomba of 319 40th Street. Miss Flynn is a senior at Bay Ridge High School.

Mr, Palomba is a graduate of Tex tile High School, Manhattan. Dolores Flynn ening problem social worker, Family Service staff of one of like very much, of yourself. Mary column, not Write her, Teenagers are people and therefore not all alike. Still, they tend to fall into types. Take, for Instance, the young-for-their-age coltish kids who haven't learned how to handle themselves suavely.

They always seem to be doing the wrong thing. By BEULAH FRANCE, R.X. (Q.) Our son's wife has gone off with another man, leaving him with their five children. We have taken them in. It has been so long since we have had boyt and girls (ranging in age from 5 to 12) that we shall need lots of advice.

I believe this will be a permanent arrangement. In fact, we want to make our home a place the children and my son will want to sjay in. Have you any suggestions? Mr. and Mrs. L.

R. M. (A.) You will have to deal with six separate personalities. Children's Welfare League Plans for Benefit on Saturday The Children's Welfare League of Brooklyn will hold a sale and dessert bridge on Saturday at 1:30 p.m. at St.

Bartholomew's Community House, 1227 Pacific St. The president, Mrs. Arthur M. Milligan, will be assisted by the bridge chairman, Mrs. Lily Bishop Potter, and Miss Mildred Hinman, hospitality host ess, and Mrs.

Dorothy Ward In charge of sales All proceeds will be for the benefit of needy crippled chu dren and for scholarship for crippled teen-agers. Mrs. Datri Entertained By Former President Mrs. William F. Datri, the newly installed president of St.

Joseph's Guild, Nursing Sis ters of the Sick Poor, was hon ored at a luncheon given by the past presidents of the Guild last week. The luncheon was held at the convent, 218 76th St. The guests attending the luncheon were Mrs. Clifton L. Dance, Mrs.

John J. McManus, Mrs. Wil- iam J. McCarthy, Mrs. Fran cis J.

Clancey Mrs. John J. Cummings, Mrs. William A. Hamm, Mrs.

Robert Cranston, Mrs. William D. Colgan, Mrs Charles J. Reilly and Mrs. Har old C.

Kenney. Miss Zelinda Bilardi And Mr. Bongiorno WiU Wed Sunday The forthcoming marriage of Miss Zelinda Bilardi, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Anthony V.

Bilardi of 1415 Herkimer to Peter Bongiorno, son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Bongiorno of 141 Rockaway will take place on Sunday at Our Lady of Lo- 'h Sackrnan St The reto Church, backman st. ine Rev. Anthony Barretta will of ficiate.

The hride tn-be will be attend ed by Miss Rose Ceparano as maid of honor, and the brides maids will include the Misses Mary Ann Impellizzieri, Connie Grasso, Ray Bongiorno and Stefani LoRe. Donna Marino will be flower girl and Stephen Bilardi, page boy, Carl Bilardi, brother of the bride-to-be, will be best man, and acting as ushers will be Donald Bongiorno, DonDiFilip- po, Dom Santanastasio and Peter Muscarella. The bridegroom, who attend ed Boys High School and Dele- hanty Institute, recently returned from Korea with the 3d Division Marines IS- Zelinda Bilardi i Ayres, to LaRoy Bradley Tilden, LeRoy Tilden of Brooklyn. Miss Ayres was graduated from Middlefoury College, Mid-dlebury, Vt. She received her master's degree from Teachers College, Columbia University, and has studied at the Sor-bonne.

She is a teacher of 'A 't Shirley Ayres French at Bergenfield High School, Bergenfield, N. J. Mr. Tilden was graduated ic from Yale University and is studying for his master's de gree at New York University. He is associated with the National City Bank of New York.

A June wedding is planned. V. N. A. Will Benefit By Program March 13; Mrs.

Feely Chairman Mrs. James W. Feely of 44 Prospect Park West has been named chairman of the com mittee for the benefit to be held by the Visiting Nurse As-, sociation of Brooklyn on Saturday, March 13, at 8:30 p.m., at the Academy of Music. Miss Agnes Morehead will give a new program of dramatic read- Mrs. James W.

Feely ir-Y lVj rr 1 1 of Treat your son and each child show a guest. Don't expect per fection of anv of them. Remem ber, the children are all one half of the errant mother who broke up their home. But don't drive them from you by criti cism of her. They may cling to love of her despite her treat ment of them.

Children are often extremely loyal and re sent anything said against those whom they once loved. Children need love. That is a basic essential. But be careful not to overwhelm them with attention. To "spoil" youngsters by letting them always have everything they want and allowing them perfect freedom without necessary guidance is not actually "love" for the boys and girls themselves.

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So first, son, check up on the rules of etiquette what to say when you're introduced, common courtesies toward girls and women, acceptable conduct in public. Get a book on teenage behavior from your library or bookstore and study it. If you know the mechanics of good manners, you're bound to be come less self-conscious. Next, pick yourself a hobby or a sport and learn all you can about it. This will give you an interest outside your self, a topic of conversation and companionship with co-hobby- lsts.

Think of Others Thirdly, practice thinking of the other fellow. Listen to what he (or she) says and make a conscious effort to put him or her at ease. Lastly, forget your mistakes, You won't be able to curb your moods of silliness and sulki-ness all at once. But you can stop brooding about them. ri i.

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